
I Choose Health Podcast
#91: Why Your Life Is Hard: Subconscious Patterns & Self-Doubt | Dr. Tara Perry
Start healing today with our #sponsor BetterHelp and get 10% off your first month by going to: https://www.betterhelp.com/ichoosehealth Why do you still feel stuck, stressed, or not good enough, even when you’re succeeding? Dr. Tara Perry returns to the I Choose Health Podcast with Stefan Lessie to explore subconscious patterns, imposter syndrome, people pleasing, and the childhood beliefs that can shape our adult lives. Drawing on her background in acupuncture, Chinese medicine, and hypnotherapy, Dr. Perry shares her perspective on the mind-body connection and integrative healing. We discuss how parents model emotional patterns, why high achievers struggle with self-doubt, and how mindfulness, breathwork, boundaries, and celebrating progress can support emotional well-being. Get Dr. Perry’s free 20-minute coherent breathing audio: https://consulttara.com/library/coherent-breathing-5-5 CHAPTERS 00:00 Why the mind matters in healing 01:42 BetterHelp sponsor message 02:56 Podcast theme and welcome 03:38 How acupuncture shaped Dr. Perry’s approach 06:05 Mindfulness and natural approaches to stress 08:54 Fear of acupuncture and the stress response 11:52 Hypnotherapy and the mind-body connection 13:16 Acupuncture, foam rolling, and other tools 15:07 Food cravings and subconscious associations 20:34 Are children easier to help? 25:01 How parents can model anxiety or calm 28:13 Helping children feel heard through affect labeling 31:36 Why high achievers feel not good enough 35:28 Imposter syndrome and impossible standards 38:26 Why celebrating your wins matters 39:59 Negative people, people pleasing, and boundaries 43:11 Why an integrative approach matters 45:39 Dr. Perry’s perspective on Western medicine 50:10 Choosing an approach for each person 51:47 Wellness trends and marketing hype 54:05 Lightning round: habits, books, and hypnotherapy myths 56:37 Chickens, nature, and connection 58:22 Thoughts, love, and the quality of your life 58:33 Free breathwork gift and closing CONNECT WITH DR. TARA PERRY Website / Work with Dr. Tara Perry: https://consulttara.com/ ️ Next Level Healing Podcast: https://consulttara.com/podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drtaraperry/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@drtaragraceperry Breathwork gift: https://consulttara.com/library/coherent-breathing-5-5 Subscribe to I Choose Health for more conversations about choosing power, possibility, and purpose. #DrTaraPerry #SubconsciousMind #Hypnotherapy #ImposterSyndrome #IChooseHealth Subscribe & Connect with I Choose Health: YouTube Podcast Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@IChooseHealthPodcast Fitness Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@mindcorefitness1 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ichoosehealthpodcast/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ichoosehealthpodcast Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0rxOkqBlAQBZVfznoUpNvP ️ Shop Merch: https://ichoosehealthpodcast.myshopify.com/collections/all

