Honey, We’re Not Okay!

Welcome to Honey, We’re Not Okay! We’re two Black queer women in Arizona sharing a raw, authentic space. You’ll get all the tea on our dating lives, spirituality, and individual growth. From being dumped in the rain to the reality of cohabitating with an ex, we reflect on our community to build a new one. This is our journey of healing, resolutions, and evolution. Life is messy, and we’re navigating it with you one deep conversation at a time. We might not have it all figured out, but we’re authentic about the process. Tune in every Wednesday to see if we’re okay!

Honey, We’re Not Okay! is a society podcast hosted by Valerie and Meccah, with 12 episodes on record and a Required Pod Score of 80. PitchCentric scores this show on Booking Probability, Listen Score, and live audience signals refreshed every 24 hours.

Valerie and Meccah hosts Honey, We’re Not Okay!, a society show with 12 episodes published.

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  Episode #12

  Season 1 Finale: Recap, Reflections, and Summer Break Plans

  Apr 29, 202639 minS1

  <p>The season one finale is finally here!</p><p>We’ve officially made it through eleven episodes of deep dives, hard truths, and a whole lot of chaos. In this finale, we’re looking back at the journey of Honey, We're Not Okay—from navigating the messy world of queer dating to all of the unlearning we’ve done along the way. </p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, we talk about:</p><p>Season 1 Highlights: A recap of our favorite moments and the topics that hit the hardest. </p><p><br></p><p>The Summer Break: Why we’re st...

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  Episode #11

  Our First Q&A: Spilling Everything You Wanted to Know

  Apr 22, 20261h 9mS1

  <p>We’re opening the floor to your most intrusive questions—and we aren’t holding back. 🏳️‍🌈</p><p>This week, we’re stepping away from the scripts to answer the anonymous questions you sent us on Instagram. We’re getting into the parts of our experience that we usually only talk about in the group chat: from the cliquey nature of our community to the exhaustion of the "savior complex" in toxic relationships.</p><p>We also dive deep into the rules of engagement. Can you really survive a long-distance poly relationship? Is dating a friend’s ex ever okay? </p><p><br></p><...

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  Episode #10

  We Realized Monogamy Isn't the Only Way to Love

  Apr 15, 202653 minS1

  <p>Is there only one way to love, or have we just been sold a dream that doesn’t fit? 🏡 This week on Honey, We’re Not Okay!, we’re putting monogamy and polyamory side-by-side to see where we actually land.</p><p>We’re getting honest about the "Standard American Dream" of one partner and why that feels like a cage to some and a safety net to others. From Meccah's experience navigating multiple relationships to Valerie’s need for clear boundaries and "permission," we’re breaking down the terminology (as best we can)—ENM, Ambiamory, and the complexities of Mono-Poly dyna...

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  Episode #9

  We Took the Attachment Test and It Exposed Everything

  Apr 8, 202657 minS1

  <p>Are you the one double-texting, or the one leaving them on read for three days? 📱 This week on Honey, We’re Not Okay!, Valerie and Meccah are diving into the world of attachment theory.</p><p><br></p><p>We’re taking the attachment style quiz and getting honest about our results—from being "secure" at work to "preoccupied" in romance. We also discuss how coming out and dating women completely shifted our nervous systems, and why we’re now confronting anxious thoughts we never had before.</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, we unpack:</p><p>The Four St...

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  Episode #8

  Spirituality, Manifestation & Self-Care: Staying Sane When Life is Trying You

  Apr 1, 202654 minS1

  <p>Welcome back to Honey, We're Not Okay with Valerie and Meccah. In case you were wondering, we’re still not okay. This week, we are having an honest conversation about the intersection of spirituality, manifestation, and the reality of day-to-day stress.</p><p>We often hear about the "perfect" spiritual routine, but what happens when life gets overwhelming and those habits fall to the wayside? In this episode, we discuss our personal struggles with staying consistent and how we’re using tools like The Artist's Way and morning pages to find our footing again. We dive into the nuance of m...

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