
Episode #41
Deborah Traficante, Cisco CEO John Chambers, and How to Lead, Negotiate & Build Unshakable Confidence
Host: Nicole Donnelly Guest: Deborah Traficante – Former VP of US Sales at Cisco Systems, Sales & Leadership Consultant…and one of the first women to help build the internet from the inside In this honest, no-BS episode of Hello Moxie, Nicole sits down with Deborah Traficante, a Cisco sales pioneer, mentor, and straight-talking leadership veteran, to explore what it actually takes to lead — and be believed — in rooms that weren't built for you. Deborah's story is hard-won — she joined Cisco in 1990 as one of the first two women hired into a 40-person global sales team, back when most people had never heard of the internet, let alone bet their career on it. She opens up about being underestimated at every rank, the double standards she navigated for decades, and what it really means to step into fear and speak up when the room is 95% men. This conversation is direct, funny, and ultimately empowering. Together, Nicole and Deborah explore: How Deborah broke into Cisco's internet sales division and spent a year earning credibility with buyers who saw her as "an empty suit" The moment a VP told the sales team to wear khakis and bring their wives — and how Deborah responded on the spot Why an HR mentor telling her "white males are going to hire white males, so it's your job" became her mission The leadership lesson that changed how she led as she rose the ranks: less control, more influence Deborah is a powerful example of what it looks like to live the Moxie Method in full bloom: from Step Into Fear to Shine. Key Takeaways: Confidence isn't a mindset trick — it's built through competence and preparation, especially when you're the one who has to prove it twice Being underestimated doesn't require a comeback line to survive it — sometimes success is the only response you need If you're one of the only women in the room, mentoring the next one isn't optional — it's the legacy that outlasts the title Real leadership means trading control for influence, and learning to let go of the reins as you rise Connect with Deborah Traficante: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/deborah-traficante-3377762a/ Mentioned in the Episode: The Moxie Method: https://hellomoxie.us/embracing-change-for-personal-growth/ -- Share your thoughts and questions If this episode moved you, we'd love for you to pass it along to a friend who needs to hear it — and if you've got 30 seconds, leaving a review helps way more women find their way to these conversations. It genuinely matters more than you'd think. Learn More About Hello Moxie Website: Women Empowerment & Inspiring Stories | Hello Moxie Connect with Nicole: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicole-donnelly-dmg/ Follow us on Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/hello-moxie-us Say hello Moxie.

