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giving (un)bothered

Hosted by Alana Banks and Jelka Lepever · 🇺🇸 US · EN · 59 episodes

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59
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45m
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40
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25
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About this podcast

Two (un)bothered best friends navigating LGBTQ+ dating, friendships, and adulting in your 20s. Tune in for candid, unfiltered conversations on dating disasters, relationship advice, the ups and downs of friendships, and the rollercoaster of adulting. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or figuring it all out, join us each week for hilarious stories, relatable struggles, and the chaos of life in your 20s. Get ready for the real, messy, and entertaining moments that make adulting way more fun. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Alana Banks and Jelka Lepever hosts giving (un)bothered, a society show with 59 episodes published.

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sapphic toxic traits, dating icks & one-night stands

May 13, 202633mEp. 58

We’re back with another Truth or Drink… and this one got a little too honest 😅 From sapphic toxic traits to the most random (and very real) dating icks, plus everything that comes with one-night stands… nothing was off

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lesbian history, queer media & coming out with Roxy Bourdillon

Apr 29, 20261h 6mEp. 57

In today’s episode of giving (un)bothered, we sit down with Roxy Bourdillon, award-winning writer, author of What A Girl Wants: A (True) Story of Sexuality and Self-Discovery, and Editor-in-Chief of DIVA Magazine, the le

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having a straight girl kink (with 2D2M) - part 2

Apr 15, 202645mEp. 56

In Part 2 with 2D2M, we’re getting into the chaos with our signature game “Bothered or Unbothered” and let’s just say… nothing is off limits. We’re talking: •Socks on or OFF during intimacy 👀 •Being the “experiment” in

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s*x tapes, finding your identity & IKAG cancelled (with 2D2M) - part 1

Apr 1, 202644mEp. 55

This week on giving (un)bothered, things get very chaotic with Rose & Ellie from 2D2M (Two Dykes Two Mics) 💥 And this is only Part 1… 👀 Known for their unfiltered takes, they join us for an episode that completely spir

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sapphic signs you like her more than a friend

Mar 18, 202633mEp. 54

This week on giving (un)bothered, we’re exposing the real sapphic signs you like her more than a friend — from getting jealous (but pretending you’re chill), to fantasising about her in your dreams. Whether you’re in a q

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Just a "Phase" : heated rivalry, s*x bucket list, wlw dirty talk

Mar 4, 202630mEp. 53

Season 3 is HERE and we’re starting messy, heated, and unapologetically. In this episode of giving (un)bothered, we spiral over our obsession with Heated Rivalry, unpack the tension, the chemistry, and why we can’t stop

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sapphic dating wrapped & etsy witch soulmate reading

Dec 24, 202558mEp. 52

As 2025 comes to a close, we’re unwrapping our sapphic dating lives. Think of it as the ultimate end-of-year recap, but messier. In this episode, we dive into our personal “Dating Unwrapped” stats: the unforgettable high

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the L word debrief : loving Bette Porter is a red flag

Dec 10, 202542mEp. 51

This week on giving (un)bothered, we’re deep-diving into The L Word — the iconic, chaotic, ahead-of-its-time series that transformed queer TV history and paved the way for modern LGBTQ+ representation in media. If you’ve

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surviving long distance relationships : facetime dates, communication & staying independent

Nov 26, 202537mEp. 50

Long-distance relationships are NOT for the weak and on today’s episode, we’re unpacking everything that keeps a long distance relationship alive… and everything that can ruin it. From FaceTime dates, to over-communicati

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lesbian s*x for dummies: labels in the bedroom (with Katie from Labeless)

Nov 12, 20251h 1mEp. 49

We sit down with Katie, founder of queer-owned s*x toy company Labeless, to unpack labels in the bedroom: top, bottom, pillow princess, and everything in between. Plus, our first experiences with women and the awkward tr

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truth or drink: sapphic age gaps & getting caught having s*x

Oct 29, 202536mEp. 48

We’re back with another Truth or Drink, and things got way too real. From sapphic fantasies to virginity stories we probably shouldn’t have shared, this one’s pure chaos in the best way. Grab a drink and dive into the me

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gold star lesbians, baby gays & heartbreak advice

Oct 15, 202542mEp. 47

We’re answering your questions about gold star lesbians, baby gays, and queer heartbreak. Real listener confessions, breakup advice, and chaotic first-date stories: unfiltered and very gay. 🌈💔 Find us on:  Instagr

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lesbian hot takes : why do lesbians sleep with their friends?

Oct 1, 202525mEp. 46

We’re back, season 2 of giving (un)bothered is here! 🎉 And we’re starting off strong with lesbian hot takes: all the unfiltered, spicy opinions you’ve been thinking (but maybe not saying out loud). From controversial ta

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sapphic red flags : how to get over your first crush

Jul 30, 202544mEp. 45

Your first lesbian crush? Been there. Obsessed? Absolutely. Over it? …Eventually. In this episode, we dive deep into the sapphic red flags you should run from (👀), the ones we controversially find kinda hot (don’t judge

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let’s get naked: sexting, strapping & bedroom icks

Jul 23, 202525mEp. 44

In this unfiltered and hilarious episode, we’re getting real about what happens behind closed doors. From sexting fails to our biggest bedroom icks, nothing is off-limits. We dive into the juicy debate: fingering, scisso

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navigating long distance relationships (with Kelsey & Becky)

Jul 16, 20251h 21mEp. 43

In this episode, we dive deep into the highs and lows of long-distance relationships. We’re joined by Kelsey and Becky, a couple who fell in love 5,000 miles apart after matching on Hinge — and yes, there was a ghosting

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we got ghosted by the same girl?! WLW dating horror stories (with Amy Pozzilli)

Jul 9, 202558mEp. 42

This week, we're joined by our friend Amy to talk all things heartbreak, healing, and sapphic dating chaos. Amy shares how she rebuilt her confidence, stepped back into dating, and how it felt getting ghosted by the same

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building a happy queer marriage (with Megan Elliott-Hewson)

Jul 2, 202537mEp. 41

In this episode, we sit down with queer writer, artist, and pottery studio owner Megan Elliott-Hewson to dive into the beauty and complexity of queer marriage, building a life in creative partnership, and the unfiltered

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Hinge's love expert Moe Ari Brown on queer dating trends, label fatigue & identity pressure

Jun 25, 20251h 7mEp. 40

In this episode, we’re joined by Moe Ari Brown (they / him) — Hinge’s Love & Connection Expert and a licensed therapist—to dive deep into the complexities of queer dating in 2025. We talk about everything from label fati

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truth or drink: rebounds, exes & kinks

Jun 18, 202533mEp. 39

Being queer in your 20s means dating drama, messy breakups, and a few…questionable choices. This week, we play truth or drink and confess it all—from kinks to the ex we’re still not over. Find us on:  Instagram: ⁠ @

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giving (un)bothered is hosted by Alana Banks and Jelka Lepever. The show is categorised under society (culture) and has published 59 episodes.

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