"Girl, I've been thinking"

Girl, I’ve been thinking… This podcast is for the woman who feels awake — but restless. Who’s tired of performing healing and ready to be honest instead. Hosted by Monica Cotolan, Girl, I’ve Been Thinking is an intimate, unfiltered podcast about identity, emotional patterns, self-betrayal, and becoming the person your life is asking for. No motivation. No fluff. Just conversations that feel like a mirror. If you’re ready to stop circling your potential and actually meet yourself, press play.

"Girl, I've been thinking" is a education podcast hosted by Monica Cotolan, with 42 episodes on record and a Required Pod Score of 80. PitchCentric scores this show on Booking Probability, Listen Score, and live audience signals refreshed every 24 hours.

Monica Cotolan hosts "Girl, I've been thinking", a education show with 42 episodes published.

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  The Woman You Become When You’re Trying to Be Loved

  Aug 13, 202627 min

  Listen to this before entering a relationship. Or before losing yourself in the one you’re already in. Because sometimes we don’t lose ourselves all at once. We do it slowly. We become more agreeable, less “difficult,” less intense… and slowly start choosing the relationship over ourselves. In this episode, we’re talking about how to love someone without abandoning your dreams, your identity, or the parts of you that make you you . Stay connected: Instagram @monica_cotolan @girl_ive_been_thinking_podcast For collaborations or private inquiries: cotolanmonica41@gmail.com If this podcast resonates, share it with a woman who needs to hear it. Support the show

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  Your Nervous System Is Addicted to the Old Story

  Jun 11, 202623 min

  You can’t create a new life with a nervous system that’s still loyal to the old one. In this episode, you’ll learn why you keep repeating the same patterns , and how to begin rewriting the story your body has been carrying for years. Stay connected: Instagram @monica_cotolan @girl_ive_been_thinking_podcast For collaborations or private inquiries: cotolanmonica41@gmail.com If this podcast resonates, share it with a someone who needs to hear it. Support the show

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  The Toxic Side of ‘Healing’ No One Talks About

  Apr 30, 202619 minS0

  <p>You think you’re healing.</p><p>But what if you’re just… performing it?</p><p>In this episode, I’m calling out the version of “healing” that looks good on the surface like love, light, high vibes ,but quietly avoids the real work.</p><p>The suppressed anger. The hidden jealousy.</p><p>The parts of you you don’t want to admit are there.</p><p>Because real healing isn’t about becoming better. It’s about becoming honest.</p><p>Are you actually healing… or just getting better at hiding?</p><p>Stay connected:</p><p>Instagram</p><p>@m...

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  How to Move On After a Breakup or Ghosting (When You Didn’t Get Closure)

  Apr 9, 202626 minS0

  <p>You don’t miss them.</p><p>You miss what you thought it could be.</p><p>That’s why you keep going back ,even when it’s over.</p><p><br/></p><p>In this episode, we talk about:</p><p>•why you feel stuck after a breakup or ghosting</p><p>•why closure isn’t coming</p><p>•how to actually let go and move on</p><p><br/></p><p>If you’re tired of overthinking, checking, and waiting for answers…this is for you.</p><p><br/></p><p><b>DM me “MOVE ON” on Instagram</b></p><p>if...

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  he was cute until he wasn’t

  Mar 26, 202648 minS0

  <p>subtle icks that instantly kill attraction . </p><p><br/></p><p>The ick. </p><p>I asked women online. They didn’t hold back.</p><p>It’s always something small.</p><p>And then it’s over.</p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><b>Follow & connect</b></p><p><br/></p><p>Instagram (personal): <b>@monica_cotolan</b></p><p>Podcast Instagram: <b>@girl_ive_been_thinking_podcast</b></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p>Support the show</p>

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