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Hosted by Monica Cotolan · 🇺🇸 US · EN-US · 42 episodes
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Girl, I’ve been thinking… This podcast is for the woman who feels awake — but restless. Who’s tired of performing healing and ready to be honest instead. Hosted by Monica Cotolan, Girl, I’ve Been Thinking is an intimate, unfiltered podcast about identity, emotional patterns, self-betrayal, and becoming the person your life is asking for. No motivation. No fluff. Just conversations that feel like a mirror. If you’re ready to stop circling your potential and actually meet yourself, press play.
Monica Cotolan hosts "Girl, I've been thinking", a education show with 42 episodes published.
Listen to this before entering a relationship. Or before losing yourself in the one you’re already in. Because sometimes we don’t lose ourselves all at once. We do it slowly. We become more agreeable, less “difficult,” l
You can’t create a new life with a nervous system that’s still loyal to the old one. In this episode, you’ll learn why you keep repeating the same patterns , and how to begin rewriting the story your body has been carryi
You think you’re healing. But what if you’re just… performing it? In this episode, I’m calling out the version of “healing” that looks good on the surface like love, light, high vibes ,but quietly avoids the real work. T
You don’t miss them. You miss what you thought it could be. That’s why you keep going back ,even when it’s over. In this episode, we talk about: •why you feel stuck after a breakup or ghosting •why closure isn’t coming •
subtle icks that instantly kill attraction . The ick. I asked women online. They didn’t hold back. It’s always something small. And then it’s over. Follow & connect Instagram (personal): @monica_cotolan Podcast Instagram
What if the reason your relationships keep ending the same way… isn’t just them? In this episode, we’re talking about the patterns nobody wants to admit: falling for potential, overthinking texts, needing clarity too soo
Some people move on quickly after a breakup. Others barely survive the silence. In this episode I break down the pattern known as monkey-barring , when someone jumps from one relationship straight into another without ev
Being replaced can make you question your entire worth. One moment you’re part of someone’s life … and the next it feels like you’ve been swapped out like you never mattered. And suddenly the question appears: “Was I jus
Have you ever felt like you had to be a certain version of yourself to be loved? In this episode, I’m talking about what it means to perform in relationships , to overgive, overexplain, overachieve just to feel secure. W
At some point, growth stops feeling empowering and starts feeling… quieter. In this episode, we talk about what happens after you become self-aware when you can’t unsee patterns, can’t romanticize chaos anymore, and can’
What if the way people react to you… isn’t really about you? In this raw and reflective episode, I invite you into the truth behind your light: You are a mirror. Some will feel seen in your presence—and love you for it.
Are you tired of second-guessing your reality? Still picking up the pieces after a toxic relationship? This episode is your lifeline. Dive deep into the hidden world of narcissistic abuse as we expose the manipulative ta
Ever feel like your emotions are a tangled mess, steering you off course? In this soul-stirring episode, we dive deep into the truth your heart already knows: Your emotions are not obstacles…they’re your most powerful gu
🌟 Boost Your Self-Confidence! 🌟 In this episode, we dive deep into the transformative power of self-confidence. Join us as we share personal stories, expert tips, and actionable strategies to help you unleash your inne
In this thought-provoking episode, we dive deep into the realms of self-awareness and emotional balance. Join us as we explore the integration of feminine and masculine energies, discussing how these vital aspects shape
It’s not uncommon to fall into a rut. Life can be monotonous. Our routines are often the same day-to-day. And if you are out of alignment maybe you don’t live the life that you want and that makes it hard to enjoy it .It
Send us a text It’s not uncommon to fall into a rut. Life can be monotonous. Our routines are often the same day-to-day. And if you are out of alignment maybe you don’t live the life that you want and that makes it hard
Understand that life has unpredictable plans in store for everyone. You can’t steer it in any direction or control it. So, never worry about factors out of your influence. Focus on being in flow, and enjoy every moment.
In order to break the cycle of toxic behavior, it is crucial to first identify and recognize common toxic traits. These traits can manifest in various ways and have a significant impact on our relationships, personal gro
Dark feminine energy is often a misunderstood concept because we tend to think of darkness as something negative. Life is full of contrasts and complexities, and much of our living experience comes from the balance betwe
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"Girl, I've been thinking" is hosted by Monica Cotolan. The show is categorised under education (self improvement) and has published 42 episodes.
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