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Hosted by Lonay · 🇺🇸 US · EN · 27 episodes
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A podcast about queer love gone wrong (and right).Real stories. Real chaos. All gay.The podcast where queer folks spill the tea on their past relationships. From messy breakups and ghostings that haunt us, to whirlwind love stories that left us gagged (in the best and worst ways), no tale is too spicy or too awkward.Want to share your story?Book a call with me: https://www.rainbowjourney.co/ghosted-gagged-gay
Lonay hosts Ghosted, Gagged and Gay!, a society show with 27 episodes published.
What if the emotionally unavailable men were never the real problem, what if you were terrified of the one person who actually showed up? In this week's listener story, we follow a gay man stuck in a brutal cycle: chasin
Why does sex sometimes feel easier than intimacy? In this episode of Ghosted, Gagged, and Gay, Lonay Halloum is joined by Radiance Sanneman (trauma specialist + IFS therapist) and Vanessa Cushing (AASECT-certified sex th
A listener sent me a Grindr date story that starts off promising (good morning texts, voice notes, “no games”) and ends exactly the way your nervous system is already predicting. In this short solo episode of Ghosted, Ga
What’s the real difference between privacy and secrecy in gay dating and why does it matter so much for emotional safety? In this episode of Ghosted, Gagged, and Gay, Lonay is joined by Samuel Garza Bernstein (screenwrit
In gay dating, the biggest red flags aren’t always loud. Sometimes they’re polished. Charming. Reasonable. Sometimes they’re beautiful masks. In this episode of Ghosted, Gagged, and Gay, Lonay sits down with Frank Spinel
What if the biggest red flags in gay dating aren’t the obvious ones, but the quiet ones you rationalize because the chemistry is strong? In this episode of Ghosted, Gagged, and Gay, Lonay sits down with Lamont Scales Whi
What happens when queer connection starts online, but your nervous system still thinks being fully seen is unsafe? In this episode of Ghosted, Gagged, and Gay , Lonay sits down with Kestral Gaian, best-selling author and
Gay dating can feel harder than ever — endless swiping, mixed signals, “not ready” energy, and chemistry that burns hot but goes nowhere. In this episode of Ghosted, Gagged, and Gay, I sit down with Trevor Kuhn (aka Love
What does it actually look like to move from survival mode to self-love as a queer man, especially after years of homophobia, bullying, and pressure to “be a certain kind of man”? In this episode of Ghosted, Gagged, and
In this solo episode of Ghosted, Gagged and Gay, I unpack a shocking Grindr story that perfectly exposes the emotional damage hookup apps can create in the LGBTQ+ community. What started as hours of chemistry and connect
Internalized homophobia doesn’t always look like self-hatred on the surface. Sometimes it’s the quiet flinch when you’re seen. The urge to hide your relationship. The pattern of chasing emotionally unavailable men. The “
If you’re a gay man looking for a healthy, long-term relationship, finding a boyfriend isn’t about trying harder, performing better, or fixing yourself into someone “more desirable.” It’s about clarity, emotional availab
Most gay men don’t fail at relationships because they don’t love enough, they fail because certain behaviors slowly kill emotional safety, attraction, and trust (often without realizing it). In this solo episode of Ghost
What does it actually mean to be emotionally available, beyond the Instagram buzzwords and therapy speak? In this episode, I break down emotional availability from a grounded, real-life perspective, especially within gay
Feeling stuck, burnt out, or like you’ve lost your sparkle after heartbreak? This week on Ghosted, Gagged, and Gay, Lonay sits down with Erica Wiederlight, renowned confidence coach, speaker, and host of the top-rated po
In this powerful episode of Ghosted, Gagged and Gay, Lonay is joined by award‑winning writer, educator, and media critic Dr. Jonathan Paul Higgins (Doctor Jon Paul) for a conversation at the intersection of Blackness, qu
Are you tired of falling for people who can’t (or won’t) show up for you? You’re not alone. In this episode, we dive deep into why so many LGBTQ+ rainbows find themselves chasing emotionally unavailable partners, and wha
In this solo episode of Ghosted, Gagged and Gay, host Lonay—relationship coach and Rapid Transformational Therapy® practitioner—dives deep into the world of heavy emotions within the LGBTQ+ community. Why do so many quee
What happens after coming out — when the journey is no longer about labels, but about living as your fullest, truest self? In this episode of Ghosted, Gagged & Gay!, I sit down with Josh O’Neill — Executive Director, ent
What does it mean to grow older as a gay man — especially when illness and care needs enter the picture? In this episode of Ghosted, Gagged & Gay!, I talk with Daphne Wright — nurse, writer, and hopeful traveler — about
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Ghosted, Gagged and Gay! is hosted by Lonay. The show is categorised under society (culture) and has published 27 episodes.
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