Episode #1
S2 E1 Who Are You Without Your Survival Story
You can tell your story perfectly and still feel like you don’t know yourself. If your introduction is always built from trauma, bad relationships, disappointments, or everything you had to carry, it’s time for a reset: your pain is part of you, but it doesn’t get to be your entire identity. We’re getting honest about what happens when survival becomes a personality, and how to start meeting the person underneath the coping roles. We walk through a set of grounded, practical self-discovery questions designed for identity after trauma and emotional healing. What do you actually like, not what you learned to like to keep someone else happy? When do you feel the most confident, peaceful, playful, powerful, or just alive? What would you choose if you didn’t have to explain yourself, and what standards do you want to live by now? We also talk about curiosity and growth: what you want to learn, what you want to try, and who you want to be when you stop framing life as “fixing yourself.” Then we name the patterns many of us slip into: being the family fixer, the glue, the people pleaser, the overexplainer, the person always proving worth. We explore what it looks like to leave those roles behind, reclaim humour and creativity, and even let your “weirdness” breathe again. If you’ve been performing for safety, this conversation helps you separate performance from authenticity and build a clearer, kinder sense of self. If this hits, subscribe to Get It Got It, Girl, share it with someone who needs a fresh start, and leave a review so more people can find these tools. What question are you going to sit with this week? Send us Fan Mail Support the show National Suicide Prevention: 988 US National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233 Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741 Disclaimer: This content is for emotional clarity and creative healing. It is not a substitute for therapy or professional mental health support.