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<p>How can we educate people so they can enjoy their shameful desires?</p><br><p>My guest in this episode is Dug Gaines, who is a living legend. For 50 years Dug has been running the Foot Fraternity, a network for...

<p>What if we all quit watching influencers and met to discuss sex instead?</p><br><p>My guest in this episode is Ruby Rare, who has a bone to pick with the internet. She’s built a huge online audience for her work as a...

<p>Is group sex the way to a better world?</p><br><p>My guest in this episode is Leanne Yau, who runs the @polyphiliablog viral accounts across social media. Leanne is a polyamory educator who, among many other things...

<p>Are sex events and fetish gear too expensive?</p><br><p>My guest in this episode is Matt Skully, who’s a performer, curator, events producer and occasional sex worker. His heart is as big as his desires as dark—and...

<p>Can we find a way to take sex seriously?</p><br><p>My guest in this episode is Anastasiia Fedorova, a latex lover and author of a book called Second Skin: Inside the Worlds of Fetish, Kink and Deviant Desire...

<p>What if sexuality wasn’t a spectrum?</p><br><p>My guest in this episode is Sari Van Anders, who is a very multi-faceted scientist and thinker. Drawing on her experience in behavioural science and neuroscience, plus...

<p>How should we regulate sex clubs?</p><br><p>My guest in this episode is Karl Verboten, one of the masterminds behind one of London’s greatest kink club nights, Klub Verboten.</p><br><p>Karl told me the story of how...

<p>Are sex-positive people too self-righteous?</p><br><p>My guest in this episode is Zachary Zane, a writer whose work focuses on sex and, well, his own experiences as a bisexual slut. Zach literally wrote the book on...

<p>What a dominatrix taught me about universal basic income</p><br><p>This is an audio version of an essay from the Free Sex Substack - subscribe now to receive my writing into your inbox, and to support my...

<p>What if we didn’t need to work to earn money?</p><br><p>My guest in this episode is Eva Oh, a dominatrix who wants everyone to have their basic needs financially covered. This was such a philosophical conversation...

<p>How can we flip the script on what sex and relationships can be?</p><br><p>My guest in this episode is Silva Neves, who is a psychosexual and relationships psychotherapist. Silva sees all sorts of clients with...

<p>Should we change our sexuality labels?</p><br><p>My guest in this episode is Richard Sprott, a psychologist and sexuality researcher. Richard’s been exploring human sexuality for 20 years but says he’s still “at the...

<p>Do we all share a communal sexual energy that’s just waiting to be activated?</p><br><p>My guest in this episode is Kalah Hill, and she thinks the answer is definitely yes! Kalah works with individuals and groups of...

<p>How can we create non-judgemental sex clubs and dancefloors?</p><br><p>My guest in this episode is Diana Isi, who is part of the underground queer scene in London. As a DJ, Diana helps to create precious spaces where...

<p>What if... we could suck toes without shame?</p><br><p>In this episode, my producer Tash turns the mic on ME to ask me about my foot kink. I’ve just published a new book called Solemates: A History of Our Fetish for...