
Episode #130
Trying to Get Visible While Staying Invisible | The Fear That's Costing You Clients
A few months ago I got on a call with a business owner who almost canceled on me twice. She runs a real consulting business, real clients, real revenue, and she's smart and experienced. But when we finally connected, she told me something I hear constantly: she's trying to grow her visibility while staying invisible. She wants more clients and more reach, but she doesn't want to actually put herself out there to get it. In this episode I dig into that contradiction, because it's one of the most common things I see in founders, consultants, and fractional executives. I ask her the question I ask almost everyone in this spot: what are you actually afraid of? Her answer was blunt. She's scared to fail in public. Scared of bad takes. Scared people will read what she posts and think less of her. I walk through why that fear feels so real and so specific, and why it almost never matches what actually happens once people start posting. If you've ever sat on a draft, rewritten a headline five times, or talked yourself out of hitting publish, this conversation is for you. This is the fear that quietly costs founders clients, and I want to help you name it so you can move through it instead of around it. Build your founder brand with Mylance: https://mylance.co Connect with Bradley Jacobs: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bradley-r-jacobs/ 00:00 The client who kept rescheduling 00:53 Why founders stay invisible 01:26 Naming the real fear 02:33 Fear with no actual consequence 03:10 The vulnerability of putting yourself out there 04:09 The founder who never posted once 05:04 What actually happens after a bad post 05:51 Why posting daily doesn't bombard anyone 06:30 The algorithm myth everyone believes 06:53 Your content isn't about you 08:18 My own fear before hitting publish 09:15 Why nothing is ever perfect at launch 10:02 The hardest part of being a founder 10:30 The exercise: name what you're avoiding 11:02 Let your vision be bigger than your fear 11:33 Closing and where to find Mylance



