Hosted by The Connection Audit · 🇺🇸 US · EN · 30 episodes
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The Connection Audit is a clear-eyed podcast about modern relationships—what’s changed, what’s broken, and what actually helps people connect with respect. Hosted by Kirsten and Blake, it cuts through the noise around dating culture and ethical non-monogamy (ENM) and focuses on the emotional skills most of us were never taught. What we cover Consent, boundaries, and clear agreements Communication that actually works (before, during, and after difficult moments) Dating culture, “app fatigue”, rejection, and emotional burnout Jealousy, insecurity, attachment, and repair after conflict ENM fundamentals: pacing, aftercare, and ethical behaviour in the lifestyle The real-world standards that keep women safer and connection healthier Why listen If you’re tired of chaos, mixed messages, and performative “relationship advice”, this is for you. Each episode offers practical language, grounded frameworks, and a
The Connection Audit hosts For anyone bruised by modern dating or outdated scripts, we offer a healthier lens to look through., a society show with 30 episodes published.
When Openness Moves Faster Than Truth What happens when a couple opens their relationship before the truth has caught up? In this episode of The Connection Audit , Kirsten & Blake audit one of the quieter risks in ENM, s
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Romance fraud is not about stupidity. It targets trust, attachment, hope & the human wish to be seen. In this episode of The Connection Audit, Kirsten & Blake audit what happens when connection becomes extraction. We loo
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Why are so many people feeling exhausted by mainstream dating? In this episode of The Connection Audit , Kirsten & Blake explore what is really driving people away from conventional dating culture & towards ENM, swinging
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Why does it so often feel as though women choose, while men have to be chosen? In this episode of The Connection Audit , Kirsten & Blake unpack one of the most repeated phrases in swinging, ENM, & modern sexual culture —
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What happens when a couple says, “Maybe we should open up,” before they’ve built the trust, pacing, clarity, or emotional steadiness to hold it? In this episode, Kirsten & Blake audit the gap between curiosity & readines
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Why do dating apps feel so flat, so tiring, so lifeless — even when they are full of people? In this episode of The Connection Audit , Kirsten & Blake examine the “dead feeling” so many people describe after swiping, mat
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When people say, “I’m jealous,” is that really what they mean? In this episode of The Connection Audit , Kirsten & Blake unpack the emotional language people reach for in love, dating, & ethical non-monogamy when somethi
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What if some of the things people find most difficult in mainstream dating — mixed signals, ambiguity, performance, ghosting, pressure, & the fear of saying what they actually want — are exactly the things some people in
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What if feeling exhausted in your relationship does not mean the connection is failing? In this episode, Kirsten and Blake audit the cultural myth that love should stay in constant full bloom. They unpack why “when petal
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Loneliness is not just about being alone. It is the ache of not feeling seen, safe, or truly known. In this episode, Kirsten & Blake audit the modern loneliness epidemic: why a crowded life can still feel empty, why youn
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What happens when a relationship hasn’t fully broken down… but it no longer feels alive? In this episode of The Connection Audit , Kirsten and Blake examine a pattern unfolding quietly in thousands of homes: couples who
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What happens when a man who looks steady, capable, and “a great catch on paper” feels quietly trapped by the very relationship script he is supposed to want? In this episode of The Connection Audit , Kirsten and Blake un
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What happens when a woman does everything she was told would make her happy — the degree, the job, the house, the marriage, the baby — and still ends up feeling invisible inside her own life? In this episode of The Conne
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What if the biggest thing sabotaging connection isn’t your chemistry, your app, or even your communication style — but the invisible script you’ve been handed about how love is “supposed” to work? In this episode of The
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Modern dating keeps promising freedom, choice, and connection — but for many people it delivers noise, burnout, and confusion instead. In this episode of The Connection Audit , Kirsten and Blake take a clear-eyed look at
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In this episode of The Connection Audit , Kirsten and Blake take a clear-eyed look at the one topic quietly shaping modern dating and ENM spaces: loneliness . Not “being alone” — the felt absence of meaningful connection
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DMs, Rejection, and the Architecture of Respect Modern dating inboxes aren’t just “a bit messy” — they’re built on a huge, unspoken imbalance: single women and couples end up doing the unpaid emotional labour of managing
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Modern dating isn’t exhausting because you’re broken — it’s exhausting because the environment is engineered for speed, performance, and disposability. In this kickoff episode, Kirsten and Blake audit the “water we’re al
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Dating apps feel like visual noise — and it’s not your imagination. In this episode of The Connection Audit , Kirsten and Blake unpack why the attention economy rewards peacocking (motorbikes, gym mirrors, luxury flex, a
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Ever hit that sudden wall where the spark in your relationship (or social life) just… dies? In this episode, Kirsten and Blake audit TBS’s internal playbook “When Petals Wilt” — a hard-nosed strategy disguised as softnes
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