Finding Love After 30
Ep 44: Why You’re Attracted to the Wrong Men (Even When You Know Better)
In this episode, I’m breaking down why we can consciously want a healthy, committed relationship while still feeling wildly attracted to the exact men who can’t give us one—and why the nice, available guy can somehow give us the ick. You'll learn: Why you can understand your dating pattern and still repeat it Why emotionally unavailable men can create such intense chemistry Why healthy, available men might initially give you the “ick” The role your nervous system and subconscious beliefs play in attraction Why insight alone doesn’t necessarily create change How changing what feels familiar can change who you’re attracted to What happened when my clients stopped chasing the spark and started changing the pattern underneath it If you’re tired of dating the same man in a different body, this episode is for you. And if you’re ready to figure out YOUR pattern, change it, and create a clear strategy for meeting the kind of man who is actually ready for love, marriage, and commitment, book a free Dating Strategy Call with me using the link in the show notes. We’ll look at what’s been keeping you stuck and create a plan for finding your person. Want expert guidance on your love life? Book a free call to explore working with me right here! Join the How to Meet Your Husband in 6 Months or Less Free Class (come live or get the replay) Follow Shonda on Instagram and Tiktok for more inspo and dating advice.
