
Fervent Four
Pain Is Your Greatest Superpower
Greg Tomchick has been through enough over the last few years to completely change how he thinks about business, success and himself. The founder of Valor Cybersecurity returns to Fervent Four more than three years after his first appearance. Since then, he found Valor's market serving defense contractors, endured an investor falling out, a divorce and a painful split with a business partner, and came out of it with a very different definition of winning. Greg joins Zack Miller and Tim Ryan to talk about why pain can become your greatest superpower, why confidence comes from reps, what baseball taught him about handling pressure, and why confronting what you're avoiding can be the quickest path toward peace. They also dig into vulnerability, seeking approval, asking better questions, finding intrinsic value instead of chasing external validation, and Greg's upcoming book, 27 Ideals of Connection. Plus, Greg explains where he believes cybersecurity is heading as AI becomes ubiquitous and why Valor is betting on private, compartmentalized AI environments that give companies greater control over their data and intellectual property. Timestamps 00:00 Pain is your greatest superpower 00:42 The Greg Tomchick origin story 05:41 Building Valor Cybersecurity 10:05 Four years searching for product market fit 13:08 Learning what you're worth 14:33 Where confidence actually comes from 18:30 Why Greg breathes OUT under pressure 20:48 Baseball and cybersecurity have more in common than you think 21:09 The meaning behind 27 Ideals of Connection 22:43 Living outside your comfort zone 25:26 Stop assuming. Ask the question. 30:09 Knowing what to care about 34:14 Why people need honest feedback 36:36 Greg's darkest stretch 38:00 Pain is your greatest superpower 41:24 The transformation since Greg's first appearance 43:37 Learning that you are enough 45:29 Intrinsic vs. extrinsic success 50:56 Vulnerability creates connection 53:44 What happens to cybersecurity in the AI era? 56:37 Valor's move into private AI 59:18 What food represents Hampton Roads? https://valor-cybersecurity.com/






