Farm Family Harmony Podcast

Get personal with Elaine Froese, Canada's Farm Whisperer, in Farm Family Harmony, where no farm topic is taboo! Whether it's about a Daughter-In-Law feeling left out of the farm family, which sibling gets the family farm, or when it's time to tell Mom and Dad to respectfully retire, Elaine covers the crucial conversations every farm family needs to have.

Farm Family Harmony Podcast is a education podcast hosted by Elaine Froese, with 74 episodes on record and a Required Pod Score of 80.

Elaine Froese hosts Farm Family Harmony Podcast, a education show with 74 episodes published.

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  75: How Fraud Can Fracture Farm Families

  Oct 6, 202644 min

  In this episode, I sit down with Julie Matthews, fraud investigator and former investigative journalist, for an important conversation about fraud and the impact it can have on farm and rural families. Julie brings years of experience working with scam victims and seeing firsthand how the effects can reach far beyond the money lost. Together, we explore why farm families can be particularly vulnerable and how quickly trust can be taken advantage of. We also talk about what can happen when fraud enters a family, why it can be so difficult to talk about, and what farm families need to be paying closer attention to. If you want to better protect your farm and the people you care about, this episode is for you. "The scammers will try to isolate that person further from any family or friends they do have. So for family and friends, watch for isolation... try to keep the lines of communication open." - Julie Matthews Resources Mentioned During This Episode www.juliematthews.ca Scam prevention resources, fraud awareness, and support for individuals, families, and rural communities. About Our Guest Julie Matthews has dedicated her career to stopping scam artists and protecting Canadians. She spent 19 years as an investigative TV reporter. Her passion for helping others led her to trade her microphone for a badge, becoming a peace officer and senior investigator with the Government of Alberta's Consumer Investigations Unit. Recognizing the need for fraud prevention education, especially in rural areas, she turned her focus to empowering others. Julie now travels across Canada delivering engaging presentations to seniors, businesses, and community groups about the latest scams. She focuses in depth on fraud impacting rural and farming communities and families. She is the national spokesperson for the Canadian Anti-Scam Coalition's Stand Against Scams campaign. She is a strong victim's advocate and volunteers her time speaking to victims and their families across North America about how to get through to loved ones trapped in one of these heartbreaking scams. Contact Julie Follow Julie on Facebook Follow Julie on Instagram Follow Julie on TikTok Elaine Froese Resources: Watch this episode on YouTube . Visit the podcast website SPEAKING - book Elaine for your next event COACHING - explore Farm Transition Coaching MEMBERSHIP - become a Farm Family Transition Member FREE STUFF - downloadable tools for your farm transition CONTACT - take the next steps in your transition BURNING QUESTION? Submit it here Farm Family Coach Social Media Links Facebook Instagram LinkedIn X YouTube TikTok Timestamps: *]:pointer-events-auto R6Vx5W_threadScrollVars scroll-mb-[calc(var(--scroll-root-safe-area-inset-bottom,0px)+var(--thread-response-height))] scroll-mt-[calc(var(--header-height)+min(200px,max(70px,20svh)))]" dir="auto" data-turn-id= "request-WEB:20dce6e2-ee03-4773-ad86-dc604738cdf8-1" data-turn-id-container= "request-WEB:20dce6e2-ee03-4773-ad86-dc604738cdf8-1" data-testid= "conversation-turn-2" data-turn="assistant"> div:has([data-free-thinking-preview-answer=true])+:is(.text-message,.relative:has(>.text-message))]:-mt-2 grow"> div:has([data-free-thinking-preview-answer=true])+:is(.text-message,.relative:has(>.text-message))]:-mt-2" data-streaming-response-group=""> 00:30 - Episode intro and why fraud fractures farm families 03:51 - Julie speaks to seniors and the problem of scam shame 05:03 - Why scammers target farms and rural families 08:12 - One email click that led to thousands disappearing 10:05 - Cybersecurity basics for farms without IT departments 11:47 - Phone scams, CRA impersonation, and grandparent fraud 14:10 - Buy and sell scams involving tractors, livestock, and feed 17:01 - Romance scams, friendship scams, and emotional manipulation 18:59 - Warning signs: secrecy, isolation, and hidden relationships 22:05 - How social connection helps protect isolated adults 25:19 - Spotting fake emails, fake names, and fake websites 27:37 - Cloned Facebook pages and fake contests from real businesses 29:31 - Defining elder abuse and protecting farm families legally 32:22 - Estate scams, odd bills, and suspicious family behavior 35:43 - Organizing documents and using password managers safely 39:42 - Obituary scams and why family details should stay private 42:08 - How to contact Julie Matthews for speaking and support 43:05 - Final reminders on harvest stress, gut instinct, and getting help

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  74: Barbed Wire Thinking - The Land Logic Model

  Sep 21, 202652 min

  In this episode, I sit down with Chad Reznicek , Behavioral Health State Specialist with the Colorado AgrAbility Project, to talk about something that affects all of us: the way we think about the challenges in front of us. Chad spent 20 years as a licensed therapist before bringing his experience to agriculture and helping develop the Land Logic Model, a practical approach designed for farmers and ranchers. Together, we explore what Chad calls "barbed wire thinking": thought patterns that can leave us feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or convinced things are worse than they really are. We talk about how assumptions, comparison, blame, and all-or-nothing thinking can show up on the farm, and why it's important to pay attention to the stories we're telling ourselves. Chad also shares why asking for help matters, especially in a culture where working harder and pushing through can feel like the only option. If you've ever caught yourself assuming the worst, carrying everything on your shoulders, or wondering how to look at a difficult situation differently, this episode is for you. "If we don't like the current consequences we are dealing with in life, we may not be able to change the things that are happening to us, but we can change and question whether our belief is working in our favor." - Chad Reznicek, MA, LPC Resources Mentioned During This Episode COMET 90-minute training to help community members recognize and respond to signs of behavioral health distress Colorado Agricultural Mental Health Program Mental health voucher program for Colorado's agricultural community About Our Guest Chad Reznicek is the Behavioral Health State Specialist with Colorado State University Extension and Co-Director of the Colorado AgrAbility Project, committed to helping expand and improve behavioral health support and resources in rural communities. Before joining the AgrAbility Team, Chad spent 20 years as a licensed therapist, providing behavioral health services in diverse settings with special focus areas in suicide prevention, trauma, mood disorders, and substance abuse. Both of Chad's parents were raised on farms, and he grew up in a small town in central Nebraska with a deep respect for agriculture as the heart of our rural communities. Contact Chad Visit LandLogic's Website Visit the Colorado AgrAbility Project Website Elaine Froese Resources: Watch this episode on YouTube. Visit the podcast website SPEAKING - book Elaine for your next event COACHING - explore Farm Transition Coaching MEMBERSHIP - become a Farm Family Transition Member FREE STUFF - downloadable tools for your farm transition CONTACT - take the next steps in your transition BURNING QUESTION? Submit it here Farm Family Coach Social Media Links Facebook Instagram LinkedIn X YouTube TikTok Timestamps: 0:30 — Welcome and episode introduction 2:17 — Chad's background: rural Nebraska, therapy work, and moving into agricultural mental health 5:18 — What the Land Logic model is and how it supports producers 8:01 — The "agrarian imperative": why land, purpose, and farming identity run so deep 10:53 — Using a farm map and a typical day to help producers feel understood 12:32 — Introducing "barbed wire thinking" and how thought patterns affect wellbeing 14:47 — Catastrophizing: expecting the worst-case outcome 17:37 — All-or-nothing thinking and making room for the gray area 19:49 — Mind reading: assuming you know what others are thinking 22:56 — Overgeneralizing from one setback 25:19 — Blaming, agency, and focusing on what you can influence 30:55 — Personalization: carrying too much responsibility alone 35:42 — Comparing yourself to neighbors and measuring self-worth through appearances 38:29 — The fairness trap: dwelling on what feels unfair 41:42 — "Heaven's reward": using work to avoid hard family conversations 45:13 — Toxic grit, asking for help, and challenging the "do it alone" mindset 48:34 — Land Logic training, resources, and how listeners can connect 50:40 — Closing invitation to the Farm Family Transition membership

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  73: Transition Talk Tips for Siblings

  Sep 8, 202640 min

  In this episode, I'm talking about something many farm families wrestle with: how to have better conversations with your siblings about farm transition. Farm siblings and non-farm siblings can look at the same farm and see things very differently. You may have different expectations, different concerns, and even different ideas about what the future should look like. So how do you talk about it without the conversation going sideways? I share some practical talking tips and questions to help you come from a place of curiosity, get clearer about what matters to each person, and keep the conversation moving forward. If conversations with your farm or non-farm siblings have been difficult, avoided, or long overdue, this episode is for you. "Respect doesn't mean that everyone agrees, but it means that everybody gets to speak without being labeled entitled or greedy or ungrateful or impossible." - Elaine Froese Elaine Froese (pronounced 'phrase'), CSP, is a certified professional speaker, certified coach, and author. She's a go-to expert for farm families who want better communication and conflict resolution to secure a successful farm transition. As a farmer and mother to the successor of their farm, she understands the culture of agriculture intimately. Her superpower is helping families find harmony through understanding. Her expertise is to discuss what she calls the Undiscussabull™ – the bull in the middle of the farm family that no one wants to talk about. She is an award-winning author who's written 5 books over the past 25 years. Faith Today magazine has dubbed her "Canada's Farm Whisperer". She was awarded the Farm Management Canada Wilson Loree award for excellence in Farm Business Management, the 4-H Canada First Most Distinguished Alumna award from a pool of 350,000 alumni, as well as the Manitoba 150 Women Trailblazers award. Elaine's passion is to share simple, practical and actionable tools with farm families so they can talk about tough issues and get traction in their farm transition. Her topics are a catalyst to courageous conversations and conflict resolution. Expect her to WOW your audience by bringing clarity with workable and practical tools. She's on a mission to guide farm families, across North America, to get unstuck, communicate better, find harmony through understanding, and secure a profitable farm legacy. Elaine's goal is for everyone to be rich in relationships. Elaine Froese Resources: Watch this episode on YouTube . Visit the podcast website SPEAKING - book Elaine for your next event COACHING - explore Farm Transition Coaching MEMBERSHIP - become a Farm Family Transition Member FREE STUFF - downloadable tools for your farm transition CONTACT - take the next steps in your transition BURNING QUESTION? Submit it here Farm Family Coach Social Media Links Facebook Instagram LinkedIn X YouTube TikTok Timestamps 00:30 - Why sibling conversations matter during farm transition 01:30 - Farm siblings vs. non-farm siblings 02:57 - Expectations, assumptions, and the roots of conflict 04:51 - Three questions to start the conversation 06:21 - Why parents' wills and intentions should not be kept secret 07:51 - Writing down commitments and next steps 08:48 - Speaking up before small irritations become big problems 09:46 - Using time tracking and data instead of emotion alone 11:23 - What non-farm heirs may still want from the farm 13:16 - Land as inheritance, equity, and long-term planning 15:10 - Warm-hand succession and transferring assets early 16:38 - What is underneath "I'm fine" 17:38 - Planning for vulnerable family members and caregiving 19:35 - When mediation or facilitation is needed 21:09 - Self-awareness and the conflict dynamic profile 24:17 - Personality differences and how they affect farm teamwork 25:28 - Why quick repair matters in sibling relationships 26:39 - Clarifying expectations, timelines, and roles 28:54 - Why Elaine does this work and the role of lived experience 29:54 - The power of thank-you notes and written conversations 34:16 - Celebrating the good together as a family 36:16 - Avoiding estrangement and choosing repair 37:56 - Why facilitators help families have safer, shorter, more productive conversations

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  72: How to Refresh From Grief & Loss on the Farm

  Aug 25, 202643 min

  In this episode, I sit down with Jaclyn Turpin , Registered Social Worker and founder of Rural Refresh, for a conversation about grief and loss on the farm, including the losses that don't always involve a death. With over ten years of experience as a social worker and her own connection to agriculture as a farm spouse, Jaclyn understands how deeply change and loss can affect farm families. Together, we talk about experiences like selling livestock, transitioning out of farming, losing independence, and other changes that aren't always recognized as something we need to grieve. Jaclyn shares why naming and talking about these experiences matters, along with practical ways to navigate loss, ask for help, and better support the people around us when they're going through a difficult time. If you or someone you know is navigating grief, change, or loss on the farm, this episode is for you. "We don't always recognize those non-death losses and transitions as a loss experience, and they really are. This is people's identity. This is people's life. It's their livelihood. It's so much a part of them." — Jaclyn Turpin, MSW, RSW, BA Resources Mentioned During This Episode Rural Refresh website: https://www.ruralrefresh.ca grief, loss, and mental health support with Jaclyn Turpin National Farmers Mental Health Alliance: https://nfmha.ca agriculture-informed mental health support for farmers and farm families Do More Ag Foundation / AgTalk: https://www.domore.ag/agtalk confidential mental health support for the Canadian agriculture community About Our Guest Jaclyn Turpin is a Registered Social Worker in private practice. With both her lived experience and education, she supports farmers and their families with transitions, loss, and change. Jaclyn has years of experience working with those who are experiencing grief from both death and non-death losses. She now farms with her husband and children in Oxford County, Ontario, and is committed to supporting those who identify as the farmer and those who keep the rest of the roles filled, both on and off the farm. Jaclyn is passionate about working with rural individuals and appreciates the uniqueness of rural mental health and grief on the farm. Contact Jaclyn Visit Rural Refresh Website Follow Jaclyn on Facebook Follow Jaclyn on Instagram Elaine Froese Resources: Watch this episode on YouTube. Visit the podcast website SPEAKING - book Elaine for your next event COACHING - explore Farm Transition Coaching MEMBERSHIP - become a Farm Family Transition Member FREE STUFF - downloadable tools for your farm transition CONTACT - take the next steps in your transition BURNING QUESTION? Submit it here Farm Family Coach Social Media Links Facebook Instagram LinkedIn X YouTube TikTok Timestamps 00:00 - Introducing grief and loss support for farm families 00:33 - Jaclyn's background growing up in Oxford County 01:19 - Why loss and grief work became personal 03:07 - Why non-death losses matter in agriculture 05:19 - Naming the actual loss in farm transitions 06:01 - Using a loss timeline to map layered grief 07:36 - Why "buck up" culture makes grief harder 08:10 - Phrases people say that are not helpful 09:30 - Replacing shallow comfort with real empathy 10:21 - Questions that open space for honest grief 11:54 - Presence matters more than perfect words 12:41 - Why "let me know if I can help" is too vague 13:04 - Practical support that actually helps farm families 14:03 - What makes agricultural grief unique 15:12 - Small losses children notice on the farm 16:50 - Slowing down after a major transition 18:50 - Understanding ambiguous loss and dementia 20:47 - How dementia affects independence and farm identity 21:45 - Caregiver grief and the challenge of supporting safely 23:18 - Practical adjustments for people in care homes 24:21 - How to contact Jaclyn and work with Rural Refresh 25:39 - Why some people resist getting help 27:12 - Why it is never too early to seek support 28:38 - Making stress conversations normal in farming 30:05 - Choosing not to bottle everything up 31:39 - Why busyness is not the antidote to grief 32:16 - Expanding what community support can look like 33:57 - Frozen meals, expectations, and practical care 35:35 - Why follow-up matters long after the funeral 36:39 - Helping children understand death and loss 37:10 - Jaclyn's virtual support group for spouses of farmers 38:47 - Building community across Ontario and beyond 39:36 - Final encouragement for farm families and listeners

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  71: How to Help Farm Dad & Mom Find New Purpose

  Aug 11, 202648 min

  In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Ken Keis, president of CRG Consulting Group, leadership expert, and longtime friend, for an honest conversation about helping farm parents find purpose beyond the farm and why understanding yourself is essential for a successful transition. Drawing from decades of experience working with families, leaders, and organizations, Ken shares how personality, values, and purpose shape the way we communicate, make decisions, and navigate change. Together, we explore why so many farm transitions stall, the importance of having difficult conversations before a crisis, and how changing roles doesn't mean losing your identity. We discuss discovering your purpose beyond the farm, understanding different personality styles and values, creating a healthier family culture, and why transition planning should happen while everyone is healthy and able to make decisions together. If you or someone you know is struggling with letting go, finding purpose after farming, or navigating the next chapter of your family's journey, this episode is for you. "The farm or your business is your identity. And I'm here to say that is not true. It is just an entity. The relationship and the people are the legacy." - Dr Ken Keis Resources Mentioned During This Episode CRG Consulting Group: leadership development tools, personality assessments, and coaching resources Why Aren't You More Like Me? by Dr. Ken Keis explore personality styles, communication, and self-awareness Values Assessment Tool: discover your core values and what drives your decisions Insight: The Surprising Truth About How Others See Us, How We See Ourselves, and Why the Answers Matter More Than We Think by Dr Tasha Eurich: develop self-awareness, become more confident, and successful. Ken Keis' free eBook, The Quest for Purpose: discover your purpose, have meaning & fulfillment, live with passion and presence Triggers: Creating Behavior That Lasts: Becoming the Person You Want to Be by Marshall Goldsmith: overcome trigger points in our lives and enact meaningful and lasting change. About Our Guest Ken Keis, Ph.D., is a globally recognized expert in personality, leadership, purpose, and wellness. With more than 37 years of experience, he has delivered over 3,000 presentations and 10,000 hours of coaching and consulting, helping individuals and organizations realize their full potential. As President and CEO of Consulting Resource Group International (CRG), Ken has advanced professional and personal development through CRG's proprietary models, 10 online courses, and 14 assessments, including The Personal Style Indicator, consistently rated the #1 personality assessment by participants. He has also certified and licensed coaches, trainers, speakers, consultants, and HR professionals in more than 30 countries. Ken is the bestselling author of Why Aren't You More Like Me?, Deliberate Leadership, and The Quest for Purpose. His work has been endorsed by respected leadership experts, including Ken Blanchard, Jim Kouzes, and Marshall Goldsmith. Contact Ken Follow Ken on LinkedIn Connect with Ken on Twitter Follow Ken on Facebook Elaine Froese Resources: Watch this episode on YouTube . Visit the podcast website SPEAKING - book Elaine for your next event COACHING - explore Farm Transition Coaching MEMBERSHIP - become a Farm Family Transition Member FREE STUFF - downloadable tools for your farm transition CONTACT - take the next steps in your transition BURNING QUESTION? Submit it here Farm Family Coach Social Media Links Facebook Instagram LinkedIn X YouTube TikTok Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction: Why farm family clarity and transition matter 00:30 - Dr. Ken Keis's background and farm experience 01:03 - The importance of measurement and clarity in life and farming 01:31 - The role of personal style indicators in understanding family dynamics 02:24 - Leadership development and realization of potential 03:00 - Procrastination's impact on agriculture and family decisions 04:21 - Personal family story: engagement, values, and clarity 05:44 - Family meeting: using personality tools for farm decision-making 06:28 - Navigating risks and uncertainties in farming 07:25 - Why family members are wired differently and personality differences 08:43 - Recognizing strengths and challenges of varied personal styles 09:50 - The importance of purpose and the risks of taking the farm for granted 10:14 - The legacy of the farm: family relationships vs. land 11:07 - Inherited roles and aligning talents with farm roles 11:36 - Moving on: the story of finding fulfillment outside traditional farm roles 12:14 - Clarity about the farm as an entity, not identity 12:52 - The significance of values in decision-making and alignment 13:48 - Challenges of growth and outgrowing capabilities 14:15 - Self-awareness and perception gaps 15:14 - The need for intentional planning and clarity 16:37 - The importance of environment and culture on motivation 17:22 - Transition stories: CEOs and medical professionals 18:03 - Planning ahead for farm succession and estate transfer 19:03 - The importance of legal and estate planning 20:22 - Managing aging farm owners and health considerations 21:24 - Tools available for assessing wellness, confidence, and values 22:26 - Family and business values alignment exercises 23:41 - The role of congruence and authentic values in happiness and engagement 26:45 - Practical steps for clarity, communication, and intentional transition 28:02 - The impact of wellness, mental health, and self-worth on decision-making 29:49 - Embracing personal choice and living authentically 31:01 - Creating flexible, enjoyable retirement and transition options 32:02 - The power of intentional planning over reacting to circumstances 33:19 - Closing thoughts: Your ability to choose your farm's future

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