
Faded to Fabulous: Real Talk for Midlife Women
Episode 27 Planning for aging: Who Will Take Care of Us? Midlife Wake-Up Call
Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Faded to Fabulous, midlife experts Vicki Kirby and Kim Lovely focus on the “top of the sandwich” in the sandwich generation: aging parents—and the wake-up call it creates for planning our own futures. They stress being proactive before a crisis (like a fall) and share practical conversations to have early, including wills, living wills, healthcare proxies, account access, bill-paying, and clear wishes around long-term care. They discuss common barriers like resistance, fear, and cognitive decline, plus hard topics such as driving safety, complicated parent relationships, and caregiver stress. The hosts share cost realities for nursing homes, assisted living, and in-home care, explain Medicaid spend-down and the five-year look-back, and encourage boundaries about what adult children can realistically provide. 00:00 Proactive Care Talks 00:16 Podcast Welcome 01:36 Sandwich Generation Focus 02:44 Yuck and Yum 03:31 Online Criticism Stories 06:13 Aging Population Stats 07:21 Start the Hard Conversations 08:37 Key Planning Questions 09:26 Handling Parent Resistance 11:44 Small First Steps 13:45 Costs and Care Options 14:37 Home Care Reality Check 15:30 Medicare and Money Talk 15:44 Medicaid Spend-Down Rules 16:52 Planning Your Own Aging 17:11 Wills and Healthcare Proxies 18:12 Trusts and Power of Attorney 19:24 Retirement and Long-Term Care 21:31 Stubborn Parents and Decluttering 22:21 When Seniors Should Stop Driving 22:58 Dementia and Safety Decisions 26:11 Tough Family Dynamics 27:24 Setting Boundaries and Wrap-Up Support the show ✨ Join the Faded to Fabulous Community Support Our Mission! Click here ️ Website: https://www.fadedtofabulous.biz Instagram: @fadedtofabulous Facebook: Faded to Fabulous YouTube: Faded to Fabulous Join our newsletter: Subscribe here

