Equal-ish

Equal-ish is all about that precise intersection of parenthood, work, and being in a relationship. This funny, wonderful, messy, frustrating process is possible - but not easy! Join Kate Mangino and Rachel Childs every week to help you find your equal-ish household balance.

Equal-ish is a kids podcast hosted by Rachel Childs and Kate Mangino, with 57 episodes on record and a Required Pod Score of 80.

Rachel Childs and Kate Mangino hosts Equal-ish, a kids show with 57 episodes published.

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  Episode #58

  Ep 58. What if we stop putting boys in boxes? Helping boys build connection, boundaries and a bigger idea of masculinity. An interview with Jerome Hunter

  Sep 30, 202635 minS3

  Follow us on Instagram! Kate Mangino & Rachel Childs . Get in touch with your questions, comments and future podcast ideas at equalishpod@gmail.com What happens when boys grow up surrounded by messages telling them to be strong, dominant, competitive and emotionally tough? In this episode of Equal-ish, we talk to educator and boys’ development expert Jerome Hunter about the scripts boys absorb from an early age and what happens when we give them the space to question those scripts rather than simply follow them. Jerome shares what he learned from founding an all-boys middle school, including why the transition into adolescence can feel like “whiplash”, how boys can be socialised away from emotional expression, and why the pressure to fit in can make it incredibly difficult for them to set boundaries or challenge harmful behaviour. We explore the debate around single-sex education, asking whether separating boys and girls can create valuable space to explore identity or risk reinforcing the very gender divisions we're trying to dismantle. Jerome's answer comes back to intentionality: it's not simply whether boys and girls are educated together, but what we're actually teaching them about themselves, relationships and each other. jerome-hunter-interview We also get very practical. Jerome shares simple things schools and families can do, from a one-minute emotional check-in at the start of a lesson to helping boys understand boundaries, practising restorative rather than purely punitive discipline, and creating a shared language around healthy relationships. And perhaps the most powerful question of all: what might boys teach us if we stopped trying to mould them and simply listened? Jerome's answer is beautiful: look at me for me before evaluating me. Meet Jerome: https://www.jeromehunter.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeromehunter/ Find out more about your hosts Kate Mangino and Rachel Childs .

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  Episode #53

  Ep 57: Dad Brain: Great Dads Are Made, Not Born. An interview with Dr Darby Saxbe

  Sep 22, 202646 minS3

  Follow us on Instagram! Kate Mangino & Rachel Childs . Get in touch with your questions, comments and future podcast ideas at equalishpod@gmail.com What if becoming a father doesn't just change your life, it changes your brain? In this episode of Equal-ish, we talk to clinical psychologist and neuroscientist Dr Darby Saxbe, author of Dad Brain , about the fascinating biology of fatherhood and what it tells us about how we raise children, share care and think about masculinity. Darby's research shows that fathers' brains remodel during the transition to parenthood, with changes linked to how much time they spend caring for and connecting with their children. As she puts it: “Great dads are made, not born.” But that raises a much bigger question: what happens when fathers aren't given the time or opportunity to practise caregiving? We explore why solo parenting can be so important for dads, how unequal parenting can become self-reinforcing, and why the cognitive load remains stubbornly gendered even as fathers spend more time doing hands-on childcare. We also get into the surprising physical changes that can happen to men's bodies and hormones during fatherhood, why the obsession with maximising testosterone misses the point, and what happens when we stop seeing fatherhood as a social role and start recognising it as a profound human transition. And then we go somewhere unexpected: into the delivery room. Darby's research suggests that the way couples communicate with each other before birth may be linked to how difficult their birth experience becomes and that something as simple as validation can help diffuse conflict. This is a conversation about brains, bodies, relationships, workplaces, masculinity and the opportunities we give people to become the parents and partners they are capable of being. What would change if we designed early parenthood around the science of how fathers actually develop as caregivers? Connect with Darby: Buy the book: Dad Brain darbysaxbe.com darbysaxbe.substack.com Instagram @darbysaxbephd Find out more about your hosts Kate Mangino and Rachel Childs .

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  Episode #56

  Ep 56: What if we stopped playing by the rules?

  Sep 16, 202624 minS3

  Equal-ish is back for Year Two! After 55 episodes exploring the research, systems and social norms that make equity at home so difficult, Kate and Rachel are back, and this year they're asking a different question: What if knowing what's hard isn't enough? We've learned a lot over the last year. We've explored all the latest research that explain why equity at home is so hard. We know about workplace barriers. We know how gender norms shape parenting, relationships and family life. And yet... we still find ourselves doing the very things we know we shouldn't. Rachel puts up barriers to taking time for herself. Kate finds herself exhausted after trying to make everyone else happy. So in Year Two we're going beyond diagnosis. This season, Equal-ish is widening the conversation, exploring the stories we tell ourselves, the habits we inherit, the expectations we never consciously chose, and the unexpected ideas that might help us do things differently. From boyhood and dad brains to storytelling, AI, anger, adolescence and the everyday ways we divide up family life, Kate and Rachel are looking beyond the usual suspects and asking: What other ideas, perspectives and possibilities could help us write our own rules? We're not here to tell you how to have the perfect family. We're figuring it out too. Welcome to Year Two of Equal-ish. And remember: if it were easy to be equal-ish, we wouldn't need this podcast. Here's some links to a few of our upcoming guests if you want to read ahead: Dad Brain, by Darby Saxbe No One Loves an Angry Woman, by Gemma Hartley Mom Life Comics

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  Episode #55

  Ep 55: REPLAY: Why Being an ‘Involved Dad’ Wasn’t Enough. What Happened When Alex Trippier Went From Present To Partnership

  Sep 9, 202642 minS2

  We're taking a break over the summer and replaying some of your favourite episodes. Today we're revisiting our conversation with podcast friend Alex Trippier where he gave us his honest perspectives about his personal journey from being clueless to enlightened in all things equal-ish and mental load. Enjoy! Discovering concepts like mental load, matrescence, and motherhood ideals really can fundamentally reframe your understanding of parenting as a partnership. In today’s conversation, Rachel, Kate talk to Alex Trippier, host of the Be a Happier Parent podcast about his fatherhood journey, the strain young children put on his relationship, and the turning point—from believing he was an “involved dad” to realising he had completely missed the invisible emotional, cognitive and cultural pressures shaping his wife’s experience. It’s time to redefine fulfillment as a father beyond achievement and into meaningful family connection. Here are two of the Be a Happier Parent episodes that we referenced in our interview: ⁠The magic of caregiving with Elissa Straus ⁠ ⁠What do dads do? With Steve Biddulph⁠ These are the books Alex referenced: The Motherhood Complex by Melissa Hogenboom Matrescence by Lucy Jones Fair Play by Eve Rodsky Beyond Baby Talk by Rachel Childs Subscribe to Equal-ish on Apple Podcasts or Spotify to be the first to hear the coaching edit from our interview. Find out more about your hosts ⁠Kate Mangino⁠ and ⁠Rachel Childs⁠ or get in touch at equalishpod@gmail.com

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  Episode #54

  Ep 54: REPLAY: The Evolution of Fatherhood: Why Dads Matter More Than Ever. An interview with Dr Anna Machin

  Sep 2, 202651 minS2

  We're taking a break for the summer and replaying some of ours, and your favourite episodes. This week we're revisiting our conversation with Dr Anna Machin. This really was one of our all time favourite conversations. Anna has so much to share about the evolution of fatherhood and dispelling myths about our modern definition of the breadwinner role. Enjoy! In this episode, evolutionary anthropologist Dr Anna Machin challenges everything you thought you knew about fatherhood. From hormone shifts and brain changes to the unique ways dads build attachment, Anna unpacks why fathers are wired to be caretakers, not just breadwinners, and how their involvement shapes resilience, social skills, and mental health in children. Kate and Rachel dive into: The evolutionary roots of fatherhood and why caregiving, not earning, is innate. How dads uniquely “scaffold” children’s growth and prepare them for the world. The importance of secure attachment, sensitive parenting, and playful involvement. Why societal norms and workplace cultures, not biology, often prevent dads from fully engaging. How couples can use pregnancy to prepare for parenthood, maintain relationship strength, and navigate the early years together. This episode is essential listening for any parent, partner, or parent-to-be who wants to understand the science behind equal parenting, and how to put it into practice in today’s world. Meet Anna and explore her books: https://annamachin.com/ Subscribe to Equal-ish on Apple Podcasts or Spotify to be the first to hear the coaching edit from our interview. Find out more about your hosts Kate Mangino and Rachel Childs or email us at equalishpod@gmail.com.

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