
Episode #246
The Surprising Reasons You Put Yourself Last
Stop letting inner conflict sabotage your self-care routine. Learn why your brain resists positive habits and how to resolve it. Many busy people struggle with self-care not because they lack time, but because of a specific psychological split. One part of you wants to prioritize your health, while another part remains paralyzed by fear. This video breaks down that internal battle, explaining exactly why you feel torn between the desire for change and the comfort of the status quo. By understanding the root of your inner conflict, you can stop fighting against yourself and start building sustainable habits. 00:00 – Why We Keep Putting Ourselves Last 01:30 – “I Don’t Have Time” Is Usually Not the Real Reason 04:00 – Reason #1: Your Busy Identity Has Become Who You Are 08:00 – Reason #2: The Excuses That Keep You Stuck 10:30 – Reason #3: Productive Procrastination: Doing Everything Except What You Need 15:30 – Reason #4: The Part of You That Is Trying to Keep You Safe 19:00 – Reason #5: Why Self-Care Can Feel Selfish 23:00 – Reason #6: Busyness Protects You From Vulnerability 26:00 – How to Start Making Yourself a Priority Friedemann Schaub, MD, PhD, is the award-winning author of The Fear + Anxiety Solution. Dr. Schaub has helped thousands of people with his Personal Breakthrough and Empowerment program to overcome their fear and anxiety by addressing the deeper, subconscious root causes of these emotional challenges. Learn more at: https://DrFriedemann.com FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com//DrFriedemann INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/dr.friedemannschaub PINTEREST: https://www.pinterest.com/drfriedemann TWITTER: https://www.twitter.com/DrFriedemannS LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drfriedemannschaub/






