Designed As You Human Design Podcast
Waking Up To Illusions with Ashlee & Hillary
In this Q&A-style episode, Hillary sits down with Ashlee - a 3/5 projector, close friend, and the biggest support behind her business - to unpack a concept that's been resonating deeply on tour: making the small things big. Recorded during Virgo eclipse season, when opponent voices tend to be loudest, this conversation is about learning to notice the quiet, minimized stories running in the background of daily life - the ones we dismiss as "not a big deal" - and recognizing them as the actual root of our biggest patterns. Hillary and Ashlee trace how "small" stories (people-pleasing, seeking approval, minimizing accomplishments) quietly shape major life outcomes, and why awareness alone can shift as much as 50% of the pattern. The conversation moves into distinguishing intuition from the opponent voice - both of which "sound like you" - and why intuition never asks for proof, while the opponent always offers a reason not to act. In this episode: Making the small things big: how minimized stories quietly run the show Ashlee's personal breakthrough on belonging and self-worth from the Brisbane tour stop The difference between intuition and the opponent voice - and why both "sound like you" Why intuition never needs proof, but the opponent always offers a reason to stay small The three states of consciousness: to-me, for-me, and through-me Ease versus easy - why comfort with discomfort is the real goal Staying discerning about where energy and attention go in a distraction-heavy world Become CERTIFIED in HD in the Advanced Human Design Certification THE EXPANSION : Expand into your highest potential and timeline for conscious business owners, coaches and entrepreneurs Instagram Get your free Human Design Chart
