
Dare On with Jodi
Can I Be Happy When Someone I Love Is Hurting? Ep#171
You Can Hold the Hard and the Joy Have you ever felt guilty for experiencing joy when someone you love is hurting—or when your own life feels incredibly hard? I know that feeling. And in this deeply personal episode, I’m sharing what my sister-in-law Debbie taught me about grief, joy, fear, hope, and continuing to live even when life gives you something you never would have chosen. Debbie lived for 25 years with metastatic breast cancer. She never taught me to pretend the hard wasn’t hard. She taught me that the hard doesn’t have to take everything else with it. In This Episode, You’ll Discover Why experiencing joy during a hard season doesn’t mean you’re ignoring your pain How Debbie taught me that grief and gratitude, fear and hope, sadness and joy can exist at the same time The difference between telling yourself a fake story and a hopeful one Why acceptance is not the same as giving up What I mean when I talk about choosing to “live forward” One simple question to ask when the hard thing has become the only thing you can see Resources & Links Mentioned Come Home to the Dare On Circle HERE Two amazing organizations supporting those with Breast Cancer and those who Support and Care for them. Living Beyond Breast Cancer(LBBC) : Click HERE Unite for HER: Click HERE Connect with Jodi: ☎️ Have something you want to tell me? I want to hear your voice! Did something in this episode hit home? Have a question you want me to answer? A story you want to share? Or maybe you want to tell me about a dare you’re taking in your own life. Leave me a voice message! Your question or story might even inspire a future episode—or, with your permission, be shared on the podcast. Click here to leave Jodi a voice message Website: jodisilverman.com Facebook: facebook.com/jodibsilverman Substack: dareonwithjodi.substack.com Send me a quick note/message- what stood out in this episode! ️ You've been listening to me—now I want to meet YOU. Join me on Substack, where Dare On goes beyond the podcast. We're having real conversations about midlife, what's next, the things we're struggling with, and the lives we still want to create. You'll find live gatherings, connection, encouragement. Subscribe for FREE and come introduce yourself HERE I can't wait to meet Subscribe to my Substack HERE Step into the Dare On Circle HERE

