
Living in the Gap | Ep 68
Why Do You Need Her to Notice You've Changed? You've been doing the work. Staying calm when it used to wreck you. Catching the old reaction before it takes over. And she still looks at you like she's waiting to see if it

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Hosted by Alisa Stoddard · 🇺🇸 US · EN · 69 episodes
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Struggling to fix the distance in your marriage - even though you’ve tried everything?You’re not alone. This podcast is for high-achieving men who want more intimacy, better communication, and a stronger emotional connection with their wives.I’m Alisa, a certified relationship coach for men. I help husbands stop chasing sex and start creating real connection.Each week, you’ll get straight-talking, practical advice to help you feel more respected, appreciated, and connected at home. Whether you’re dealing with emotional disconnection, constant tension, or feeling unwanted - this podcast will help.You don’t need to walk on eggshells.You need a better way forward.And I’ll show you how.
Alisa Stoddard hosts Create More Intimacy: A Podcast for Men, a education show with 69 episodes published.

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