
Episode #16
Questions Answered on Alzheimer’s Caregiving, Processing in RealTime, and Grief
Send us Fan Mail This episode is a Q&A where we answer some of the most common questions we’ve gotten from support groups, forums, and our DMs about caregiving for someone with Alzheimer’s. We cover the guilt that comes with getting frustrated or short with a loved one even when you know it’s the disease, how to know when it’s time to push for a cognitive evaluation instead of explaining symptoms away, and why Alzheimer’s rarely progresses in a straight line, plateaus can last a while and then something changes without warning. We also talk through what’s often called ambiguous grief, the experience of grieving someone who’s still alive, and the different ways we’ve each tried to process that, including finding gratitude for what our mom can still do rather than only focusing on what’s changed. From there we get into sibling dynamics and how we’ve managed disagreeing on caregiving decisions without it damaging our relationship, and we answer the question we get asked most often: why we chose to share something this personal publicly instead of keeping it private, including how it feels different watching supportive comments come in from podcast listeners versus the more anonymous judgment that can show up on TikTok. This episode covers Alzheimer’s caregiver guilt, when to seek an Alzheimer’s evaluation, ambiguous grief and dementia, sibling conflict in caregiving, and why we’re documenting our mom’s early onset Alzheimer’s journey publicly. Support the show Thanks for walking this journey with us. Conversations Through Alzheimer's is hosted by sisters Amber and Felicia, and new episodes drop every Monday through September 2026. If this show has resonated with you, share it with someone who needs it and leave us a review wherever you get your podcasts. Follow along on our socials: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@conversationsthroughalz YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ConversationsThroughALZ Support the Alzheimer's Association by joining our Walk to End Alzheimer's team or donating: https://act.alz.org/site/TR/Walk2026/NY-WesternNewYork?pg=team&team_id=1057467&fr_id=19818


