
City Chapel NYC
1 Corinthians 7.17-24, 32-35 - Free to Be Claimed // God and Singleness, God and Marriage - Jeremiah Lepasana
Full Summary and Reflection Questions Most of us can spot the flaws in the cultures we left. It's much harder to see the one we stepped into. The pursuit of self-expression and authenticity—what philosopher Charles Taylor calls "expressive individualism"—reoriented life from how do I live up to the ideals of my community to how do I live as my most authentic self. And for many of us, that's the water we're swimming in without realizing it. The problem is what happens when self-cultivation becomes the goal. The life you want has to be "spiritually fulfilling, socially constructive, experientially diverse, emotionally enriching, self-esteem boosting, perpetually challenging, and eternally edifying." Feel the weight of that. We took an old law of traditionalism and, without knowing it, accepted a new one—just as heavy, maybe even more so. At least under the old law we carried the weight together. The early church's answer is startling. Paul tells those who are legally free that they are bond servants too. Someone has authority over your life—and he presents that as good news. Because the freedom Jesus offers isn't one thing. He frees us from condemnation—including the whisper of the feed that you're not where you should be—and he frees us to live under the right authority. The healthiest thing for you is someone who won't be negligent with you, who understands your value, and who binds himself to you. That's what bought with a price means. Before you ever make a claim on Jesus, he makes a claim on you—enters the limits of this broken world and shows you your value by giving himself completely. Is the water you're swimming in working for you? Or has it led to deeper chains, insecurity, and loneliness?

