Change My Relationship

Are Christians required to lay down all their rights and allow others to walk over them? For decades, popular church teaching suggested that followers of Christ should never demand respect, express hurt, or set...

You need support if you are caregiving for your elderly parents. One of the most important things is to understand how to set boundaries, whether you are in a healthy or dysfunctional family. Otherwise, it can be...

In this interview, Judi Noble talks about her own physically and verbally abusive marriage during the 1960s. She compares how the church and society responded to abuse victims in the sixties with today, looking at...

Do you have any neat freaks in your life? If you do, you know that they can drive your crazy with their perfectionist demands. Watch this video to get some ideas of how to deal with them in a way that works. Karla...

If you've been in unhealthy relationships, you've probably wondered why some people can't self-evaluate. They won't own what they've done. They won't listen to your concerns. They don't care if you are upset or hurt...

Confronting difficult people requires wisdom. Watch this video to learn how to plan your strategy to confront the difficult people in your life. Karla Downing's passion is to see individuals, marriages, and families set...

It is important that as a Christian you understand scriptural truths. One of these is the teaching around the question: "Has God promised you won't get more than you can bear?" You share your burdens with a fellow...

Journaling is helpful when you need clarity on a relationship problem, a boundary you need to set, on who is to blame, on the dynamics, and more. Watch this video to learn how to journal to get clarity on what is going...

If you have a difficult daughter-in-law, you are desperate to fix things so you have a better relationship with your son and grandchildren. This video gives you realistic ideas to navigate this touchy relationship...

All-or-nothing thinking causes problems in your life and relationships whether it is your or someone else's. It is just one of many cognitive distortions that is pervasive in dysfunctional relationships in families...

I, Karla Downing, am frequently asked why I stayed in my dysfunctional, toxic marriage. The answer is complex and multi-layered, as it is for anyone who has been in a difficult marriage. This honest, heartfelt exposé on...

Healthy friendship has specific components. Evaluate your friendships by learning what they are. Website: https://www.changemyrelationship.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ChangeMyRelationship YouTube...

Your narcissistic child doesn't consider your feelings, needs, boundaries, or opinions. There is no empathy or compassion for you no matter how badly you are treated. Find out why your narcissistic child doesn't care...

Going home to your dysfunctional family can be different when you change yourself. You can't force them to change or to understand the dynamics. They will likely continue to do what they always have, but your responses...

Abusive relationships have cycles. Things get better, then they escalate, and then they get bad. This crazy-making pattern adds to the confusion and self-doubt that is part of emotional, verbal, physical, spiritual, and...