
Episode #65
#65 | Comparison Stops You From Living: Pilates, Confidence & Self-Worth | Rose Verde & Julia Furlipa | Best Life By You Podcast
What happens when you stop comparing yourself to others and start focusing on your own growth? Pilates instructor Rose Verde joins Julia on Best Life by You for an honest conversation about body confidence, self-worth, boundaries, and living authentically. Rose shares how her experience with scoliosis led her to Pilates and why consistency and mindful movement are central to her practice. We explore Pilates, yoga, and strength training, the intimidation of trying something new, and the pressure of social media comparison. Beyond fitness, we talk about knowing your value, building a meaningful career, protecting your time, and having the courage to speak up for yourself. Rose’s reminder ties it all together: focus on your own garden. If you’re learning to trust yourself, set boundaries, or embrace being a beginner, this conversation is for you. CHAPTERS 00:00 Focus on Your Own Garden — Episode Preview 01:33 Meet Rose Verde 02:37 How Scoliosis Led Rose to Pilates 05:56 Consistency, Confidence & the Mind-Body Connection 08:50 Pilates, Yoga & Strength Training 12:22 Why Starting Pilates Can Feel Intimidating 16:38 Social Media Pressure & Comparison 20:21 Focus on Your Own Garden 22:24 Using Social Media as a Resource 25:27 Knowing Your Value & Building a Sustainable Career 29:19 Inside Rose’s Pilates Practice 32:21 Building a Business & Believing in Yourself 36:23 Defining Success on Your Own Terms 40:14 Money Mindset, Hard Work & Opportunity 43:35 Self-Respect & Setting Boundaries 47:27 Love, Confidence & Lessons from Relationships 51:50 When People Show You Who They Are 52:55 Investing in Yourself & Knowing Your Standards 57:54 Trusting Your Gut 59:15 Growth Through Challenge & Humility 01:01:22 Living Authentically & Embracing Your Inner Child 01:04:24 Connect with Rose & Closing Thoughts CONNECT WITH ROSE VERDE Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rootsandcore_pilates/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@rootsandcorepilates CONNECT WITH JULIA FURLIPA My Book “The 7+ Lifestyle: A Recipe Book for Life!”: https://amzn.to/4rM6HpY My Podcast “Best Life By You”: https://www.youtube.com/@bestlifebyyoupodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/julia_bestlifebyyou/ My All-in-One Best Life By You App: https://blby.app/ Work with Julia: https://www.bestlifebyyou.com/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@juliafurlipa What’s one way you’re choosing to focus on your own garden? Share it in the comments. Subscribe to Best Life by You for more conversations about mindset, movement, relationships, and personal growth. #RoseVerde #Pilates #SelfWorth #PersonalGrowth #BestLifeByYou

