Before You Cut Bangs

Hosted by Laura Quick and Claire Fierman, “Before You Cut Bangs” is full of hilarious conversations about real life, common and uncommon crises, and possible cosmetic errors that come along with it. Through storytelling and therapeutic wisdom, Claire and Laura share how to NOT fuck up your hair (and life) while walking through similar situations, Produced by Will Lochamy

Before You Cut Bangs is a society podcast hosted by Laura Quick and Claire Fierman, with 75 episodes on record and a Required Pod Score of 80.

Laura Quick and Claire Fierman hosts Before You Cut Bangs, a society show with 75 episodes published.

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  Episode #26

  3.26 Are You Accidentally Ruining Your Life? When good habits, healthy routines, and self-improvement go too far.

  Oct 2, 202627 minS3

  Optimization is having a moment, though not always in a good way. What starts as a simple Botox touch-up or a timed calendar can quickly devolve into a life that feels like a spreadsheet with a pulse. In this episode, we get honest about the immense pressure to improve everything, exploring how productivity culture creeps into wellness and shopping, and why constant tweaking ultimately leaves us less present in our actual lives. At the same time, we discuss the kinds of optimization that genuinely help. Will and Claire share how to use AI assistants like Google Gemini and Claude for scheduling and finances without losing creativity or falling into shame, while Laura unpacks chronic time optimism and the chaos of over-planning. Through Claire’s therapy lens, we examine the real drivers behind over-optimization—comparison, overachievement, and the quiet belief that you are not enough yet—while offering practical "green flags" for healthy time management and habits like keeping phones out of the bedroom.

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  Episode #25

  3.25 Apparently, We Have To Rescue Ourselves

  Sep 18, 202640 minS3

  A possum walks into a house at 2 a.m., and somehow it turns into one of the clearest lessons we’ve had about mental health, self-reliance, and what it actually means to grow up emotionally. We start with Claire’s very real wildlife situation and use it as a springboard into a bigger truth: waiting for someone else to fix your life feels comforting, but it quietly keeps you stuck. We explore the empowering (if initially jarring) idea that you have to "rescue yourself," drawing on Claire's therapy experience with clients who look to others for answers instead of trusting themselves. The hosts contrast healthy social support with reassurance-seeking, and discuss how overprotective "snowplow" parenting can undermine self-trust and fuel a need for external validation. The conversation then turns practical, tackling anxiety through the lens of processing versus rumination, why fixating on a feeling amplifies it, and how tolerating discomfort builds long-term resilience. The core message: you're capable of changing your own mind — and a challenge to identify one area of life where you're ready to stop waiting and choose yourself.

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  Episode #24

  3.24 Is Addiction Really A Disease??? w/ Keith Fierman (Claire’s Dad) Part 2

  Sep 4, 202636 minS3

  Waiting on someone you love to “finally be ready” for addiction help can quietly take over your whole life. Today we sit down with someone who’s lived both sides of it: Keith Fierman, Claire’s dad, who got sober and then built a life around helping families in crisis find the right next step. We get honest about the fear, the hope, and the confusion that shows up when addiction is in the house, and why so many people feel stuck watching the clock. Keith shares pieces of his backstory and the long shadow trauma can cast, but he also offers a crucial recovery lens: don’t rush to dig into trauma while someone is still unstable. We talk about why the addicted brain goes into survival mode when it feels threatened, how “helpful” confrontations can backfire, and why real support often starts with safety, stabilization, and a plan. We also unpack what addiction can look like when it doesn’t match the stereotype, including high-functioning addiction and the terrifying speed of opioid dependence. Keith challenges two of the most common myths families hear: that someone has to hit rock bottom, and that they have to want help before anything can change. This is part one, and we’re continuing Keith’s story in part two. Subscribe so you don’t miss it, share this with someone who needs a better map, and if our work helps, leave a five-star rating and review. What belief about addiction do you want us to tackle next?

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  Episode #23

  3.23 Is Addiction Really A Disease??? w/ Keith Fierman (Claire’s Dad) Part 1

  Aug 21, 202647 minS3

  Waiting on someone you love to “finally be ready” for addiction help can quietly take over your whole life. Today we sit down with someone who’s lived both sides of it: Keith Fierman, Claire’s dad, who got sober and then built a life around helping families in crisis find the right next step. We get honest about the fear, the hope, and the confusion that shows up when addiction is in the house, and why so many people feel stuck watching the clock. Keith shares pieces of his backstory and the long shadow trauma can cast, but he also offers a crucial recovery lens: don’t rush to dig into trauma while someone is still unstable. We talk about why the addicted brain goes into survival mode when it feels threatened, how “helpful” confrontations can backfire, and why real support often starts with safety, stabilization, and a plan. We also unpack what addiction can look like when it doesn’t match the stereotype, including high-functioning addiction and the terrifying speed of opioid dependence. Keith challenges two of the most common myths families hear: that someone has to hit rock bottom, and that they have to want help before anything can change. This is part one, and we’re continuing Keith’s story in part two. Subscribe so you don’t miss it, share this with someone who needs a better map, and if our work helps, leave a five-star rating and review. What belief about addiction do you want us to tackle next?

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  Episode #22

  3.22 TRAUMA, HURRY & HIDING: three things keeping us from REST. Here’s why.

  Aug 7, 202628 minS3

  Life moves fast, but sometimes the real problem isn’t the pace—it’s what we’re trying to outrun. This week, we unpack the hidden cost of constant urgency, why our culture rewards nonstop motion, and how anxiety, comparison, and discomfort keep us reaching for the next distraction instead of finding peace. Laura shares the long wait behind a life-changing "yes," while Claire explains why slowing down can feel so uncomfortable—and so necessary. From practical ways to embrace stillness to one simple question that can change your perspective, this episode is an invitation to trade constant hustle for a little more joy, presence, and freedom.

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