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Hosted by James & Sam · 🇺🇸 US · EN · 79 episodes
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The Ask The Unfaithful Podcast, is a safe place for both Unfaithful and Betrayed Partners to find hope and healing. This podcast draws on both our personal and professional experience to provide expert insight into the mind of the Unfaithful, and how their behaviors traumatically affect the life, heart and even brain plasticity of Betrayed Partners.Ask the Unfaithful is hosted by two Unfaithfuls in long-term recovery, James and Sam: Therapist and coach James Annear who co-owns CORE Relationship Recovery with his wife, Sharon Rinearson. They have been helping couples recover from the traumatic impacts of infidelity, sexually compulsive behaviors and addiction for over a decade.Formerly with Affair Recovery and now host of Sam's Healing Podcast, Sam has been producing videos for almost 10 years and helping to care for those in crisis due to infidelity and addiction for almost 15 years.
James & Sam hosts Ask the Unfaithful, a education show with 79 episodes published.
Why do unfaithful partners cheat and why do they have such a hard time staying in recovery? The answer is almost never just one reason. In this episode of Ask the Unfaithful, James and Sam explore five of the most common
What is the ONE action that unlocks real recovery for the unfaithful? In this powerful episode of Ask The Unfaithful, James Annear and Sam reveal the single most important shift that determines whether recovery actually
What is breadcrumbing, and why is it one of the most damaging patterns an unfaithful partner can engage in during recovery? In this episode of Ask The Unfaithful, James and Sam explore how breadcrumbing keeps betrayed pa
Are you actually doing the work… or just going through the motions? In this episode of Ask The Unfaithful, Sam and James break down 10 powerful signs of authentic recovery—and how to know if you're truly changing… or jus
If you're trying to rebuild trust after betrayal, your words matter more than you think as James and Sam discussed in the previous episode of Ask The Unfaithful. In this episode, Sam and James break down 15 critical lang
After betrayal, your words are no longer neutral. In this episode of Ask The Unfaithful, we break down the critical difference between healing language and harmful language and why the way you speak can help your betraye
Why does it feel like no matter what you, the unfaithful, do… your partner still isn't okay? In this episode of Ask The Unfaithful, we break down the 3 core misunderstandings that block recovery after infidelity—and why
In this powerful episode of Ask The Unfaithful, we break down a hidden but deeply damaging pattern in relationships affected by infidelity: self-erasure - when the unfaithful partner suppresses their voice, identity, and
In this powerful episode of Ask The Unfaithful, James Annear and Sam explore the key psychological, developmental, and behavioral differences between male and female problematic sexual behaviors—including infidelity, emo
Are you really in recovery… or are you just performing it? In this episode of Ask The Unfaithful, James and Sam tackle one of the most damaging patterns in affair recovery: performative recovery — also known as "phoning
In this episode of Ask The Unfaithful, James and Sam explore "Peter Pan Syndrome" (the "Eternal Child") through a Jungian and trauma-informed lens, unpacking why some unfaithful partners compulsively avoid responsibility
One of the most overlooked drivers of infidelity isn't desire, entitlement, or opportunity — it's broken self-trust. In this episode of Ask The Unfaithful, James and Sam dive deep into lack of self-trust in the unfaithfu
Are you truly practicing self-compassion… or actually slipping into self-indulgence? In this episode of Ask The Unfaithful, James and Sam break down one of the most misunderstood parts of infidelity recovery: the razor-t
In this episode of Ask The Unfaithful, James speaks directly to those who have betrayed their partner and are ready to become someone different. He unpacks what real new beginnings require. You'll learn what a new beginn
In this dynamic episode of Ask The Unfaithful, Sam and James unpack disenfranchised grief—the deep, invisible grief the betrayed partner experiences after infidelity. This is grief with no rituals, no casseroles, no supp
Limerence is one of the most misunderstood - and devastating - experiences in infidelity recovery. In this episode, James and Sam break down what limerence actually is, how it distorts reality, why the unfaithful become
In this provocative and practical episode of Ask The Unfaithful, Sam and James break down one of the most transformative concepts in affair recovery: No-Lose Decisions — the courageous choices that move you forward no ma
In this powerful episode of Ask The Unfaithful, James and Sam take an unflinching look at how to heal one of the most deceptive forces blocking recovery after infidelity — secret intrigue. What begins as seemingly curios
What if the greatest threat to your recovery after infidelity isn't what you think it is? In this episode of Ask The Unfaithful, James and Sam unpack how "intrigue" quietly destroys connection, fuels secrecy, and sabotag
"Healing begins when we choose authenticity over approval and prioritize the love that truly matters." In this episode of Ask the Unfaithful, James and Sam reveal how people pleasing critically affects the Unfaithful and
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