
Episode #26
Ep 26: Performing Normal: The Therapist Who Quit Being Good - Amy Watkins' Story
Amy grew up in a house that ran on fear. Hellfire, rapture-any-minute, and a God who was mostly a punishment schedule. Being good meant being invisible. Wanting things was a sin - she circled the Sears catalog in her head, because circling with a pen got you in trouble. So she got good. Good at reading every room, good at being whoever the person in front of her needed her to be. Good enough to build a whole adult life on it: a marriage, a career as a therapist, a flawless performance of a woman who was fine. Then it came apart - the marriage, the family, and finally the performance itself. What's left is who you'll meet here: a trauma therapist who calls herself God's favorite problem, and the author of a book that leaves nothing out. In this one: Why a little girl crawled down the hallway at night to check that her parents were still in their beds The difference between estrangement and parental alienation - and why Amy is careful about which word she uses What setting a boundary feels like in your body when you've never set one (she has a very specific answer) Longing versus love, and how she finally learned to tell them apart Why she says she even healed as a good girl The sunset skydive, and what jumping out of a plane had to do with posting her first video Amy is a licensed professional counselor and trauma therapist in Philadelphia. A hundred thousand people follow her at gods.favorite.problem. Her book, Performing Normal, is out now - and she didn't leave anything out. Warning - it's a heavy one: childhood sexual abuse (talked about honestly, not graphically), high-control religion, an affair, and estrangement and parental alienation - on both sides of the mic. Take what you need, including skipping this one. It'll be here when you're ready. FIND AMY Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gods.favorite.problem/ Performing Normal, her book - out now: https://www.amywatkinsstudio.com/book Everything else: https://linktr.ee/gods.favorite.problem IF YOU NEED SUPPORT RAINN - National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673, or chat at online.rainn.org . Free, confidential, 24/7 Recovering from Religion - recoveringfromreligion.org - free peer support for people questioning or leaving high-control religion National Domestic Violence Hotline - thehotline.org , 1-800-799-7233 - includes coercive control, not just physical abuse 988 - Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, call or text, US, 24/7 findahelpline.com - free, confidential support in over 100 countries The stories and views shared on Anchor Moments belong to the people telling them. They aren't always mine, and that's the point. I'm not here to agree, correct, diagnose, or decide who's right. Take what helps, and leave the rest. Got a story? anchormomentspod.com Instagram + TikTok: @anchormomentspod

