
Episode #16
This Wasn't Just a Daddy-Daughter Dance
A tux, a princess dress, a red carpet, and a ballroom full of dads trying not to cry. That’s the surface story of the Daddy-Daughter Prom, but the real story is what happens when a father chooses to show up on purpose and speaks identity into his daughter’s life with no sarcasm, no conditions, and no half effort. We talk with Russell Kimura, one of the founders of Fathers With Daughters, about why intentional fatherhood changes the standard girls carry into every future relationship. We get specific about the “identity moment” at prom where dads tell their daughters what is true about them, then give a simple keepsake that turns those words into a lasting reminder. We also unpack why this matters so much in a world where attention is cheap, promises are fast, and too many kids grow up without a steady voice at home. If you’re a busy parent, we keep it practical. Russell shares the “press play” approach to connection, plus ideas for dads who feel awkward, disconnected, or unsure where to start: drive time chats, shared playlists, small wins, and learning to step into your daughter’s world. We also get into the bigger vision: reaching 100,000 fathers, expanding beyond Hawaii, building community through technology, and funding scholarship tickets so more families can be part of the experience. If this conversation hits home, subscribe, share it with a parent who needs hope, and leave a review so more families can find it. What’s one small way you can show up for your daughter this week? IG @DawnOBrienHI FB Dawn O'Brien HI www.ChooseAloha.org IG @alohaalivepodcast youtube.com/@AlohaAlivePodcast

