Episode #55
Go Outside More as a Single Person | Stop Trying to Find Your Person Everywhere | Episode 55
Get outside, really: the main point is that spending time in nature, even just ten minutes a day, is a tiny habit that can seriously lift your head out of the dating-app spiral and make single life feel less like an endless audition. I’m Wioleta, and I rant (lovingly) about how we need a life that exists outside our phones and our own overactive minds—walks, forest preserves, porch coffee, sunsets, or even a slow sit under a tree all count. I used to go on solo dinners thinking I’d meet someone, until my sister basically told me to relax and have fun instead; now I go to meet people and to enjoy people-watching, not to optimize my love life. Whether you’re moving—hiking, biking, strolling—or simply stepping outside without an agenda, nature reminds you there’s a whole world happening beyond relationship status. So here’s your tiny, ridiculously doable glow-up: step outside every day, no pressure, no podcast required (but fine, take one if it makes you happier). Trust me, we’re allowed to enjoy our lives as they are; and hey, even if we’re late, we’re right on time—we got this. Check out upcoming singles events hosted by Wioleta at singleandsocial.com. Suggestions on how to improve this podcast? Email me at allaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com. Want to send a voice memo regarding an episode's topic? Leave me a voice note at www.allaboutbeingsingle.com. Want to see additional content? Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thisiswioleta/ or https://www.instagram.com/allaboutbeingsingle/or on Threads https://www.threads.com/@thisiswioleta. Want to watch this on YouTube? Subscribe to my channel https://www.youtube.com/@AllAboutBeingSingle. Download the free https://singleminded.gumroad.com/l/huivqv. I give a ridiculously simple glow-up this week: go outside every day, even if it’s only for ten minutes. I promise I’m not turning into a fitness guru (I’m a self-confessed non-runner), but there’s a difference between scrolling on your couch and feeling the actual wind on your face. I talk through super-practical ways to make nature a small, regular habit — take your coffee to the porch, walk to a nearby forest preserve, watch the sunset, or try a short loop around your neighborhood without doomscrolling. You don’t need an agenda: no podcast, no music, just noticing the sky, the temperature, and maybe how weirdly excited you get when it’s finally in the 70s. I also get real about how singles can get trapped in our heads — comparing milestones, obsessing over dating outcomes — and how those ten minutes outside short-circuit the spiral. For the folks who see public outings as missions to meet someone: been there, ate the overpriced solo dinner, felt the couple-envy. Now? I go out to meet people for stories, not to optimize my love life. So here’s a tiny challenge: try stepping outside today without any expectation. It’s not cheesy — it’s practical therapy, and I’ll be cheering you on. Takeaways: I insist you go outside not to swipe or flirt, but just to breathe and exist — even ten minutes on your porch counts. We don’t have to turn every walk, coffee, or event into a strategic dating move; sometimes we go simply to enjoy sunsets, birds, and fresh air. Being outside breaks the loop of overthinking and screen-glued sadness; nature recalibrates our mood and perspective more than another hour of scrolling. I learned from my solo-dinner phase that going out to ‘meet someone’ felt hollow — now I go out to meet people and stories, not just romantic potential. A tiny daily ritual — a 10-minute walk, sipping coffee on your front porch, or watching the sunset — can make your single life feel fuller and less bleak. Remember, even if we feel late in life’s schedule, we’re right on time; our lives are happening now, outside apps and comparison traps.
