
Aisle Be There
Episode 45 – [Guest Episode] Behind the Mandap: Hindu Wedding Traditions with Jitenbhai
In this week’s episode of Aisle Be There , we’re joined by Jitenbhai, one of the UK’s most well known Hindu wedding priests, for a conversation all about the meaning behind Hindu wedding ceremonies. We talk about how Jitenbhai became a wedding priest, why choosing the right priest is about far more than availability, and why couples should understand the rituals they are taking part in rather than simply following them because they have always been done that way. We explore some of the most debated parts of a Hindu wedding, including Kanyadaan, whether couples should remove certain rituals, and why social media is not always the best place to learn about religious traditions. Jitenbhai also explains why there are certain boundaries he will not cross as a priest, even if a couple asks him to change the ceremony. We also discuss navigating family opinions, the infamous wedding auntie who wants to take over on the day, how to create an engaging ceremony without constantly telling guests to be quiet, and why fusion and intercultural weddings can be incredibly meaningful when everyone understands what they are doing. Along the way, Jitenbhai shares his thoughts on family, faith, devotion and why the Hindu wedding ceremony is ultimately about two people coming together not just physically, but mentally and spiritually too.

