
Episode #31
Way Out #31: From Award-Winning Educator to Modern Supportive Husband with Brian Page
What happens when couples ditch outdated gender expectations and treat both household labor and financial strategy as a true team sport? Today, 45% of women out-earn their male partners, yet the domestic care economy hasn’t caught up. In this episode of 101 Ways Out, Vanessa sits down with Brian Page, former Milken National Educator of the Year and founder of Modern Husbands. Brian shares what led him to step away from an 80-hour workweek in education to back his wife’s corporate trajectory, dismantle the traditional link between masculinity and breadwinning, and take full ownership of the home so his partner could thrive. In this episode, we cover: (01:10) Growing up Quaker: Values of equality and simplicity (08:31) The subtle promotion bias women face—and stepping up at home (10:20) Being the "gardener": Supporting a partner’s career for mutual freedom (12:15) Unpacking the toxic connection between money and masculinity (17:00) Demolition derby cars and moving from frugality to intentional living (22:20) Googling "how to be a great husband" and launching Modern Husbands (31:35) The true, compounding cost of career pauses for women (34:00) Why chore lists fail: Taking ownership of the mental load (35:38) The single most important question couples should ask each other Connect with Brian Page: • Website: https://modernhusbands.com Find your way out: • Explore the 30-Day Program: https://www.101waysout.com Leave a 5-star review if this episode inspired you!

