
Episode 52: Want vs. Need
I asked Steve a simple question on TikTok: Would you rather be wanted or needed in a relationship? And the comments exploded. This question taps into something deeper than people realize. It’s not just about love. It’s a

Hosted by Becky · 🇺🇸 US · EN · 50 episodes
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Welcome to Heart First, Head Later your unfiltered guide to the messy, funny, and real sides of modern love. Whether you’re dating, divorced, or just figuring it all out, we’re diving into relationships, sex, breakups, and everything in between. From swiping disasters to emotional breakthroughs, nothing is off-limits. Expect honest convos, a little sass, and zero shame. Because love isn’t always pretty but it’s always worth talking about.
Becky hosts Heart First, Head Later: Love Hard. Lust Harder., a society show with 50 episodes published.

I asked Steve a simple question on TikTok: Would you rather be wanted or needed in a relationship? And the comments exploded. This question taps into something deeper than people realize. It’s not just about love. It’s a

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One day you’re vibing, the next day you’re being ghosted. We’re talking about the chaos of dating apps, why they feel exhausting, how to stay confident, and what to do when you start spiraling from too many options and n

When your cat decides now is the moment for attention. Romance? Interrupted. #couplegoals #podcast #shorts #funnymoments #cats #relatable #fyp

We talk about timing in relationships like it’s a rulebook as if everyone should want the same things at the same pace, in the same order. But real connection doesn’t work that way. In this episode, we're unpacking why t

Talking about your ex isn’t “living in the past.” It’s honoring the experiences that shaped you. In this episode, Steve and I talk about why your past relationships aren’t a threat they’re context. When your partner can

This episode is a little different in the best way. For the first time, I’m inviting my boyfriend, Steve, into the Heart First, Head Later space to talk about what it actually looks like to build a healthy relationship i

In this episode, we’re talking about something almost every couple faces: people inserting themselves into your relationship as if they somehow earned a vote. Friends, family, coworkers, and even strangers on the interne

Sharing a home doesn’t mean sharing every moment and needing alone time doesn’t mean something’s wrong. In this episode, we break down why “me time” is one of the most underrated parts of a healthy relationship, especial

Changing jobs isn’t just a career move — it’s an emotional transition. In this episode, we talk about the quiet moment you realize you’ve outgrown a chapter, the fear that comes with stepping into something new, and the

This episode explores how to stay calm, curious, and connected during hard conversations so you can work with your partner, not against them. It’s about learning to pause before getting defensive, listen to understand, a

For years, I believed that keeping my sadness alive was the only way to stay loyal to the person I lost. I thought happiness meant forgetting — and forgetting meant betrayal. But grief doesn’t want your punishment; it wa

Fear loves to disguise itself as practicality, and before you know it, you’re living inside a story of “I can’t.” But those excuses aren’t protecting you; they’re keeping you stuck. This episode is your push to stop wait

The love you’re dreaming of is real—the kind that feels safe, steady, and deeply fulfilling. But here’s the hard truth: you’ll miss it if you stay tied to someone who can’t or won’t love you the way you deserve. In this

What if your timeline isn’t broken—it’s just unfolding? In this episode of Heart First, Head Later, Becky unpacks why timing is part of the magic when it comes to love. Using Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce’s engagement as

Love isn’t built on anniversaries and Valentine’s Day alone — it’s built in the everyday. In this episode, we unpack what it really means to treat love as a daily practice: showing up on the ordinary Tuesdays, not just t

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Healing after a toxic or abusive relationship isn’t just about reclaiming your own peace—it’s also about the partner you’ll someday share your life with. When we do the work to unlearn survival patterns, set boundaries,

If you’ve ever been in a relationship where you had to shrink yourself or edit your truth just to keep the peace, you know how exhausting it is. Real intimacy—emotional and physical—can only grow when both people feel sa
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