
Episode 23: Tough Talks Toxic Masculinity Part 2
Steggy and Mal continue their talk about Toxic Masculinity and dive into the movie Ladies First (Netflix)

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"Actually, you know what" is a story/experience telling podcast where Stephany (aka Steggy) dives into relationships, self-growth, and all of the lessons learned (and not learned) along the way. Humor, honesty, and chaos is promised. Think of it like chatting with your best friend over a glass of wine: sometimes funny, sometimes deep, always real. Joined often by her partner-in-crime Mal, this is your space to laugh, reflect, heal, and feel a little less alone in the messy journey of figuring life out.
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Steggy and Mal continue their talk about Toxic Masculinity and dive into the movie Ladies First (Netflix)

This week, we're diving into a topic that's often misunderstood, oversimplified, or used as a buzzword: toxic masculinity.From the pressure men face to suppress emotions to the ways these expectations affect friendships,

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Mal and Steggy read MORE submissions from the audience - except this time, we're discussing Green Flags! From the lovely green flags that make us swoon to the overrate green flags that make us rethink the color assignmen

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This week, Mal and Steggy talk about what made them cry! Which leads into a discussion about gentle men vs violent men. We explore the difference between men who lead with tenderness and men who move through the world wi

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